The Pros And Cons Of Birth Order

Birth order can effect human psychology. It is affected by child’s growth and personality. It doesn’t matter whether he is first born, last born or somewhere in the middle. The only thing that matters is that how a child is treated by parents, other siblings and family members because if a child is being ignored by them he or she will automatically become independent. Gender has also a major impact on how a child is treated in his or her birth order. Birth order affects the personality of a child like his way of speaking, his dressing sense, his attitude etc.
Every birth order has its own characteristics, advantages, disadvantages. First born is different from middle one or younger one and middle or is different from other birth orders.
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Middle age child has different attitude. If I talk about myself, I am very aggressive at some time because I feel neglected by my family. Middle child is somehow get stuck in middle as I am. I think that this order is the hardest birth order to categorize. I get emotional easily. If someone shouts on me, I started to cry. I think this is because I don’t get much attention. Apart from that I have a big heart. I have sympathies for others, I feel for others. I help them a lot even if it’s not convenient for me but I never say a NO to them. I listen and understand others before taking any reaction. I am creative too, I think a lot out of the box, make creative things. Middle child are pioneers and daring people and I think I am one of them. Parents have a tendency to have strong desires for their elder and younger children but they don’t have any type of expectations from the middle child. Same is the case with me that’s why I try to attempt new things and make new inventions and ideas. I am agreeable person, I easily agree with things. I have realistic expectations from others. Mostly middle children are independent, so am I, I am a social butterfly because I often feel left out at home so I love to make new friends. I am compromising, this is true because according to me middle child like me has no right on elder and younger, so we become good compromiser. I am a peacemaker, though I shout a lot and become rude when I feel sad but I am very cooperative with others. I am rude and selfish at home but I am friendly, fun loving outside the