How Does Baba Redefines The Meaning Of Love

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Baba redefines the meaning of love by showing that it can be expressed in very unconventional ways, as in the case of Hassan and Amir – and with Amir, Baba has a father and son relationship that is rocky at times, but ultimately takes the form of a kind of love not shown between any other characters in the book.

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