The accepted belief was that everyone living in the colonies should be aware of their place, and this was no different in the household. Like slaves and indentured servants, children were supposed to show great respect to their superiors, or their parents. The patriarch of the family topped the miniature hierarchy, so he was supposed to be fair and loving, but firm when need be. It was his responsibility to provide for his wife and children, but that meant that he was the governing figure in the house as well. He was able to “rule” with absolute authority, which sometimes meant that the patriarch was physically abusive. The role of the wife, though inferior to her husband, was vital to the familial structure nonetheless. Not only did she bear typically seven to ten children, but her duties included planting and tending to the family garden, milking cows, preparing meals, and mending clothes. The ideal wife was submissive and faithful to her husband, even if he was cruel and irresponsible, and several colonial women wrote about their struggles, “hoping that through love, kindness, and prayer, their husbands would change their ways” (Wood). Clearly, these archetypes were imprinted deeply in the minds of the colonists, as they tried desperately to perpetuate
The accepted belief was that everyone living in the colonies should be aware of their place, and this was no different in the household. Like slaves and indentured servants, children were supposed to show great respect to their superiors, or their parents. The patriarch of the family topped the miniature hierarchy, so he was supposed to be fair and loving, but firm when need be. It was his responsibility to provide for his wife and children, but that meant that he was the governing figure in the house as well. He was able to “rule” with absolute authority, which sometimes meant that the patriarch was physically abusive. The role of the wife, though inferior to her husband, was vital to the familial structure nonetheless. Not only did she bear typically seven to ten children, but her duties included planting and tending to the family garden, milking cows, preparing meals, and mending clothes. The ideal wife was submissive and faithful to her husband, even if he was cruel and irresponsible, and several colonial women wrote about their struggles, “hoping that through love, kindness, and prayer, their husbands would change their ways” (Wood). Clearly, these archetypes were imprinted deeply in the minds of the colonists, as they tried desperately to perpetuate