How Did I Grow Up In A Sorority?

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Growing up, I definitely had a warped view on Greek Life. I presumed being in a sorority would be how the media portrayed it – crazy, dramatic, and dangerous. However, coming to Babson, I saw a different story. I observed a community of strong women supporting each other through encouragement and shared purposes. Every sorority woman I met my first semester of freshman year raved about their experiences and passion for their sisterhood. When I ended my first semester, I decided that I would be rushing in the spring.

Once I joined a sorority, I instantly felt welcomed. With all of the new member programs and events, I formed relationship with my new sisters through our many shared experiences. As I progressed through the spring semester, I

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