Atalanta, a beautiful woman who “outran every man” (Ovid: 122) was “fated to marry” (Ovid: 122). Despite her physical prowess over men, she could not escape the expectation of marriage. Instead of picking the first willing suitor, she claims, “you can win me…only if you can outrun me” (Ovid: 122). In a similar predicament, Penelope says that if a man can string Odysseus’ bow and shoot it through twelve axes, “he is the man [she] follow[s]” (Homer 2006: 426). Both of these women were willing to offer themselves as a “trophy” (Ovid: 123), but they both knew that they were offering a reward that cannot be won. By providing nearly impossible challenges, these women have gained autonomy over their own betrothals. Failing the challenge was the only way Atalanta and Penelope could deny a marriage proposal without the authority of a man. Because of this stipulation, they could prolong the time before an unwanted marriage while retaining their honor as
Atalanta, a beautiful woman who “outran every man” (Ovid: 122) was “fated to marry” (Ovid: 122). Despite her physical prowess over men, she could not escape the expectation of marriage. Instead of picking the first willing suitor, she claims, “you can win me…only if you can outrun me” (Ovid: 122). In a similar predicament, Penelope says that if a man can string Odysseus’ bow and shoot it through twelve axes, “he is the man [she] follow[s]” (Homer 2006: 426). Both of these women were willing to offer themselves as a “trophy” (Ovid: 123), but they both knew that they were offering a reward that cannot be won. By providing nearly impossible challenges, these women have gained autonomy over their own betrothals. Failing the challenge was the only way Atalanta and Penelope could deny a marriage proposal without the authority of a man. Because of this stipulation, they could prolong the time before an unwanted marriage while retaining their honor as