Dee doesn’t understand that even though the family doesn’t necessarily honor their African culture, the family honors their own traditions they have made in America. The passing down of the quilt and Dee’s name represents their family traditions which, which Dee doesn’t think is as important as her African culture. The quote “You just don’t understand’, she said, as Maggie and I came out to the car. ‘What don’t I understand?’ I wanted to know. ‘Your heritage’ she said.”(816). The quote demonstrates the differences of how Dee feels about their family’s traditions and how her Mother feels about the family’s traditions. Dee’s need to honor her thoughts of her heritage, thanks to her husband, destroys the newer traditions her family has created. Instead of recognizing the ‘now’ of her family she dismisses the change in favor of the past, completely losing her family’s newer heritage and
Dee doesn’t understand that even though the family doesn’t necessarily honor their African culture, the family honors their own traditions they have made in America. The passing down of the quilt and Dee’s name represents their family traditions which, which Dee doesn’t think is as important as her African culture. The quote “You just don’t understand’, she said, as Maggie and I came out to the car. ‘What don’t I understand?’ I wanted to know. ‘Your heritage’ she said.”(816). The quote demonstrates the differences of how Dee feels about their family’s traditions and how her Mother feels about the family’s traditions. Dee’s need to honor her thoughts of her heritage, thanks to her husband, destroys the newer traditions her family has created. Instead of recognizing the ‘now’ of her family she dismisses the change in favor of the past, completely losing her family’s newer heritage and