A related study with regard to Helicopter Parenting was conducted by researcher and psychologist, Neil Montgomery (2010). He conducted a study on 300 college students on Helicopter Parenting. He chose to focus on college students because they can be seen as being on a threshold of a new life stage as they have taken their first step away from the physical walls of their home and physical presence of their parents. Montgomery (2010) concluded that about 10% of the students had parents with overprotective traits. According to Montgomery (2010), the negative effects of Helicopter Parenting tend to make the children unhealthily “dependent, vulnerable, self-conscious, anxious, impulsive, not open to new ideas and actions”. In a study by Le Moyne
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Helicopter Parenting can permit positive outcome when the “hovering” is age appropriate; when parent and child engage in a dialogue; when the child is empowered to act; and when parents step in only if necessary. They labeled this behavior positive parental engagement. According to Dr. Patricia Somers (as cited in Somers and Settle, 2010) overprotective parents may have different focus areas that may be attributed to gender. Helicopter mothers tend to be preoccupied in a broader, all-encompassing way than fathers. These mothers tend to dominate, manipulate, pull the ropes behind the social scene making decisions about personal friendships, making sure their children get good college roommates, keeping track of their child's Facebook status to make sure their friends come from a decent background etc. They also take on the role of being their child's unofficial guarantor of academic success not only helping their children with their essays but actually doing the research and writing it. On the other hand, helicopter fathers are typically less detail orientated but more concerned with overall status and career path. Hence, helicopter mothers tend to be more subtle their intrusion while helicopter fathers uses overt confrontation going directly to the people in power with requests, complaints and sometimes even threats. Even though there are gender differences in over parenting, Helicopter Parenting can be found in most social classes of society and ethnic
Helicopter Parenting can permit positive outcome when the “hovering” is age appropriate; when parent and child engage in a dialogue; when the child is empowered to act; and when parents step in only if necessary. They labeled this behavior positive parental engagement. According to Dr. Patricia Somers (as cited in Somers and Settle, 2010) overprotective parents may have different focus areas that may be attributed to gender. Helicopter mothers tend to be preoccupied in a broader, all-encompassing way than fathers. These mothers tend to dominate, manipulate, pull the ropes behind the social scene making decisions about personal friendships, making sure their children get good college roommates, keeping track of their child's Facebook status to make sure their friends come from a decent background etc. They also take on the role of being their child's unofficial guarantor of academic success not only helping their children with their essays but actually doing the research and writing it. On the other hand, helicopter fathers are typically less detail orientated but more concerned with overall status and career path. Hence, helicopter mothers tend to be more subtle their intrusion while helicopter fathers uses overt confrontation going directly to the people in power with requests, complaints and sometimes even threats. Even though there are gender differences in over parenting, Helicopter Parenting can be found in most social classes of society and ethnic