Carly VanDewark
Ms. James
English II Honors
November 12, 2015
The Truth of Leading by Example
“Lead by example!” my mother would say. “Your sister always watches you and tries to copy you. You must be the example for her of how to behave.” I have always been told that setting good examples is an important trait for leaders, and a group of people will go in different directions if they don’t have an example to follow. But is it true that you can lead by example? Or is that a work of fiction? It is most definitely true. You have probably heard the phrase, “Actions speak louder than words.” You can say something all you want but until your actions coincide with what you say, most people will not believe you. If the example you are putting …show more content…
The article says that a manager directs processes by giving orders while leaders guide and motivate. Managers can still get results but they may create a distrustful work environment. Leaders, on the other hand, bring people together to form a team and create a cooperative and happy work environment. And the best leaders lead by example. Sadly, in most companies you will find many managers but very few leaders. It is evident that leading by example is the best way to lead. But what kind of examples should you set? If you make a mistake, take the blame. Accept responsibility for your actions; do not throw other people under the bus. Trust others; be willing to rely on them and give the benefit of the doubt. Be productive in your work and get things done in a timely manner. Others will notice these examples and want to do the same. Many people in my life have led me by their examples. My parents show me how to be selfless by putting my sister and me first. My sister is compassionate and friendly, which I try to emulate. My boyfriend Dakota shows me how to live as a passionate and faithful Christian. I admire my best friend Maggie’s love of learning and impeccable manners. My teachers are an example of dedication when they go above and beyond to help a student. The list goes on and on. I don’t know what I’d do without all these people guiding
Ms. James
English II Honors
November 12, 2015
The Truth of Leading by Example
“Lead by example!” my mother would say. “Your sister always watches you and tries to copy you. You must be the example for her of how to behave.” I have always been told that setting good examples is an important trait for leaders, and a group of people will go in different directions if they don’t have an example to follow. But is it true that you can lead by example? Or is that a work of fiction? It is most definitely true. You have probably heard the phrase, “Actions speak louder than words.” You can say something all you want but until your actions coincide with what you say, most people will not believe you. If the example you are putting …show more content…
The article says that a manager directs processes by giving orders while leaders guide and motivate. Managers can still get results but they may create a distrustful work environment. Leaders, on the other hand, bring people together to form a team and create a cooperative and happy work environment. And the best leaders lead by example. Sadly, in most companies you will find many managers but very few leaders. It is evident that leading by example is the best way to lead. But what kind of examples should you set? If you make a mistake, take the blame. Accept responsibility for your actions; do not throw other people under the bus. Trust others; be willing to rely on them and give the benefit of the doubt. Be productive in your work and get things done in a timely manner. Others will notice these examples and want to do the same. Many people in my life have led me by their examples. My parents show me how to be selfless by putting my sister and me first. My sister is compassionate and friendly, which I try to emulate. My boyfriend Dakota shows me how to live as a passionate and faithful Christian. I admire my best friend Maggie’s love of learning and impeccable manners. My teachers are an example of dedication when they go above and beyond to help a student. The list goes on and on. I don’t know what I’d do without all these people guiding