Having Kids: What Does It Means To Be A Mother

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“This experience of having kids, it is not easy, but we know that with God in our family, we can do anything impossible, possible, because God is our strength and helper”
Damaris Hernandez always wanted to be a mother since the day she married her husband Jose Ramon Batista Rodriguez. In January 15, 2002, Damaris Hernandez Payero found out that she was pregnant after 7 long years trying. She found out she was having her first baby after the doctor told her she could not have babies. She found out in San Juan Hospital, Puerto Rico. Today she lives in U.S, has two children and is 41 years old. At the age of 21 Mrs. Hernandez married her husband Jose Ramon Batista Rodriguez.
“ The day I married my husband was one of my happiest day ever”
They wanted to have children but found out that they can’t. Every single doctor she went to see told her that could not be able to have any children. She wanted to be a mother since the day she married her husband Jose Ramon Batista Rodriguez. They almost lost hope after 7 years of trying. One day when Mrs. Hernandez with her husband accompanying her went to get some test in the hospital, the test was not to know if she was pregnant, she didn't even know she
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Mrs. Hernandez says that taking care of a child is not easy, but at the end is the most beautiful beautiful thing. Today she feels so grateful and thankful because even though it has not been easy she is so glad that she has gotten this experience for over 14 years now.
“The experience of having kids it’s not easy, but I know that with God in our family, I can do anything impossible, possible, because God is our strength and helper” she says again.
Today, Mrs. Hernandez has two children and are very good kids and are excellent students. It’s been 14 years after she had her daughter and 13 years after she had her son. They both love their parents very much and respect

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