Happy Family Relationships

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Family is safe haven for people, no matter people has happiness news or severe problem; no matter people suffer from stress at outside. When people come to family, they are feeling happy and warm. Today’s society, many families which unhappiness or breakdown, lead to they have contradictions and problems. Weather the happiness of the families or not, family ties are influence family members’ life or children’s growth in the families. Since ancient times until nowadays, the society keeps the change, but happiness families have the same ways. Because happy family not only has love also happy family is trust each other, interpersonal communication and absolute equality; meanwhile, the happy family will never have deception. Instead, unhappy family …show more content…
It connect family member’s solidarity and harmony. Sullivan Ballou wrote a letter to his wife before the Civil War Battle of Bull Run, his concern that he should fall on the battle-field proved all too true. In his letter, reader can feel as a husband, he didn’t give up love for his wife. As a father, he was anxious for his sons’ growth. On the other hand, for country he was willing to sacrifice himself for the country. He wrote in the letter, “I wait for you there! Come to me , and lead thither my children” (473). He knew that even he could not be with his family in the end, he could not see his son growth anymore, but he trusted his wife could care for their children as well as he wanted. This is not only about love, and also they trusted each other in their family. They knew that they would reunite in another place, because they believed whatever they would go, their family would be together forever. The good trust relationship family can eliminate a lot of suspicion and conflict in family and everyone is willing to devote self to the family. Meanwhile, trust each other between family members can avoid the quarrel, and it will change the family …show more content…
Such as children would like to share about school news or parents talk about social problem to young kids, they are equal to each other. Good communication for family is extremely critical factor, not only for husband and wife should communication and also for parent to child need talk too. In John Updike’s artic “Separating”, he wrote a story about Richard and Joan wanted to tell their four children that they were planning on separating. They disagreed with each other when it came to how they should tell their children. When they told their children to separate, only one son seemed to be confused as why his parents separated, each of their children appeared to accept the fact that their parents were planning separate (408). By reading the story, the reader can fully feel Richard and Joan’s family lacked of communication between family members. They care about each other but they didn’t use the right way, so they quarreled on many issues like their marriage has fallen into disrepair. In their family, Richard and Joan didn’t treat children on fair. They told their children separated result. They didn’t want to tell children separate of the reason. Inequality relationship is influence the family member

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