If you have low confidence, there is often very little you can do to change your thinking about the matter, but you can change your behavior, and then your thinking will follow.
If you try to make yourself not nervous, for example, by commanding yourself not to be nervous, then you will end up making yourself more nervous. The only trick is to breathe deeply, slow the pace, and relax the muscles because that will end up increasing your confidence better than any mental measure. People are often powerless over their minds but not their bodies. This is especially important when you're approaching a girl or going to …show more content…
If the conversation goes surprisingly well, then exchange phone numbers. Text her a few days later to see if she wants to out to eat and increase the amount of conversation. By proceeding in a logical progression, you can build confidence at each step of the way instead of getting rejected right at first by trying to jump to the top all at once.
Another tip for male confidence that will seem that you exude it is to look a girl in the eye instead of averting your eyes when you talk to her. No one likes to be talked to when the other person's eyes are averted to something else. That is downright rude and stifling to the conversation.
Another thing you can do is slow down the pace of the conversation to put you more in control of where the conversation is going. This shows the girl that you're in control and have some male confidence because of your mastery of the language aspect of a relationship.
Controlling the conversation can be a first step to letting a girl know that you really care about the situation and that she is valued because you are investing time and effort into ensuring a dedicated conversation. This shows a sense of control that is like