Habit 4 Worksheet

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After I read the 7 habits book, I started to know that I don’t actually have an appropriate balance among the various aspects of my life (family, friends, work, and so forth). I started to know this as I read the RBA (relationship bank account) pages. I came to know that about me because in the RBA section, RBA deposits and RBA withdrawals, I read the RBA deposits and I didn’t fit into all of them, but as I read the RBA withdrawals I came to know that I fitted into almost everything like Break promises, Talk too much, and Keep to yourself. I always do these kind of stuff to my friends, peers, and my best friends which makes it harder to keep up with my relationships. In the habit 4 worksheet, I had a lot of situations that relates to win- lose and lose- win attitude which I could have easily changed to a win- win situation, but I didn’t
If I keep on doing this I will loose all my friends, my peers, and my family’s attention, trust, and eventually I will lose them too.
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I will use those 2 habits in my life because it relates to the RBA bank account which is what I need most work with. I will use habit 4 because I really need to know how to think win- win. Whenever I arrive at a conflict or some other problem, I think of myself to win all the time as I want to get out of the conflict. I don’t usually think about others at all and how they will end up in the conflict. That is why habit 4 will be useful because in habit 4, it talks about how to think win- win and how it is an all- you- can- eat- buffet. If I use this habit in the future, everyone, including me will be happy if we get out of the conflict and we all would have won in some

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