Gubr Relationships In The Relationship Between Orked And Arif

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Gubra is a movie in which has a lot of different and unique relationship. There is this particular relationship that we find interesting, which is the relationship between Orked and her husband, Arif. Relationship itself is the way in which two or more people or things are connected. As the relationship goes, the people who are involved in it can choose to develop it or terminate it. Conflict is the main reason people terminate their relationship. Lies is a one out of many conflict that happens in most relationship. Lie is the deliberate presentation of information you know not to be true or when you bend the facts to serve you personally. The cost (of conflict) is greater than the benefit to the other side, leading to losing trust to the other …show more content…
In the beginning of the movie, Orked and Arif have a harmonic relationship. There’s a scene in which they’re taking a bath together, having fun and laughing. It shows that they’re happy with their relationship. Even when Orked meets her old friend Alan, who is Orked’s ex's brother, Arif doesn’t seemed to be ashamed to admit that Orked is his wife. At this point of the relationship, Arif and Orked have reached the bonding stage of the relationship stages. They are formalizing their relationship through marriage. Both look so incredibly happy and harmonious. This means there is an existence of dialectical tension in the relationship. Dialectical tension is a tension that occurs when opposing goal meet. In the movie there are 3 elements of the dialectical tension that can be seen. First there is a balance between connection with the partner and the autonomy of having their own identity. Both Orked and Arif are …show more content…
In Arif and Orked’s relationship, there is a lack of truthfulness, shown by Arif keeping a huge painful secret. He is cheating with a woman named Latifah for a while without Orked acknowledging. Cheating in many ways is included as lying, because of cheating requires the act of hiding a secret and pretending some things didn’t happen. Orked finds out Arif was cheating when she sees Arif with Latifah in a café, after Arif told Orked there’s an important client to meet. She immediately approaches them and forces both to say the truth. She asked Latifah if she loves Arif or not and she said yes. Orked also add a bonus question that ask about how many times Latifah been sleeping with her husband and the answer is 8

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