Growing Up In A Single Mother Household Essay

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Growing up in a single mother household all your life is a worst nightmare. Knowing you have no father figure or male role model in your life is hard, especially knowing that you can’t go to anyone for everything. Kids who are boys might have mothers, but they can’t go to their mother for everything. For example I grew up in a single mother household without a father and it was hectic, knowing you can’t go home and tell your dad what happened at school or who you’re crushing on. It’s difficult because I know from experience, what I’ve gone through and especially seeing my mother suffer from hurt and anger. Also you would be surprised how many kids who grew up without their father leads to drug abuse and most likely to end up in jail. we as a society can help kids stay out of trouble in little kids events or even doing a fundraiser towards charity so they can realize giving back is a good deed.

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speaking from experience my father never tried to come back when i was a little boy. he never attempt to try even contact me. When i was a little boy no one ever tried taking a stand to be a father figure to me besides my grandfather. Besides being an only child, i’ve learned how to deal with it. In one of the articles I found it had quote” fathers usually come home after the absence to their household”(fathers successfully returning home, Gosnel,Ken). I can relate that today I can honestly say that when my father tried to come back in my life. I didn’t want him to come that back into my life cause he had caused so much pain and sadness to me. i can use this because I can relate to when my father tried to come back and be in my life after 8 years had past by , now he wanted to try and repay me with buying me stuff. Thats not the point in my life, the point is he was absent all my life now he wants to buy me things to make it

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