Living in the life of growing up …show more content…
speaking from experience my father never tried to come back when i was a little boy. he never attempt to try even contact me. When i was a little boy no one ever tried taking a stand to be a father figure to me besides my grandfather. Besides being an only child, i’ve learned how to deal with it. In one of the articles I found it had quote” fathers usually come home after the absence to their household”(fathers successfully returning home, Gosnel,Ken). I can relate that today I can honestly say that when my father tried to come back in my life. I didn’t want him to come that back into my life cause he had caused so much pain and sadness to me. i can use this because I can relate to when my father tried to come back and be in my life after 8 years had past by , now he wanted to try and repay me with buying me stuff. Thats not the point in my life, the point is he was absent all my life now he wants to buy me things to make it