SalamNaveed,
Let me begin by saying Congratulations! I am so genuinely and sincerely so happy that you have Malik have found each other. May Allah always bless you two. I have waited some time to send you this email, because I did not want to to cause any sort of "drama" or cast even the slightest shadow on one of the happiest day(s) of your life.
However, I feel that out of respect for our friendship, I need to tell you that I am very sadden and deeply hurt that I was not invited to your wedding reception in Atlanta. Thus, the purpose of email is to ask why, but more importantly to ask if you were me what how would you react to/handle this sadness and hurt.
I know that our friendship will change (always does), when someone gets married. …show more content…
(My gut is telling me that this is the reason, and if it is please know that out of pure respect of for my fellow female (ie your wife in this case) and my guy friends (ie you in this case), any and all conversations that take place in the past stay there. I never bring it up nor allude to them, as not to make other person who was not a part of the conversation feel left out, hurt, or even for a split second feel the slightest bit uncomfortable. In the case our friendship the "worst" thing that I might say is "Naveed, was a good friend to me when I really needed him and based on the advice he 's given me over the years I have a lot of respect for him."...and that worst case senairo of how "deep" I would go in terms of what I would say" All mention of long talks, shared stories, celebrated birthdays, march madness crazy are kept in the …show more content…
Both us living our lives as we always have but no longer caring or being concerned what is going on the other lives (ie marriages, babies, sickness, job promotions etc).
We remain acquaintances "friends" via FB and when mutual friends/acquaintances asks or mention the other we just remain quite, or just say yeah it 's been a while since we spoke.
We somehow get over it and get to the point that we 're friends again, knowing that asking "what 's new?" or "how 's life?" are perfectly acceptable questions to ask once or twice a year.
I am still in a state of confusion, sadness, and hurt as to what happened that you would not want to invite me to your wedding reception. Was this a fluke or is it meant to send a larger message? . While,it maybe hard to believe I really do not have any ill will towards you just a lot sadness, hurt and disappointment in regards to this whole situation.
Let me begin by saying Congratulations! I am so genuinely and sincerely so happy that you have Malik have found each other. May Allah always bless you two. I have waited some time to send you this email, because I did not want to to cause any sort of "drama" or cast even the slightest shadow on one of the happiest day(s) of your life.
However, I feel that out of respect for our friendship, I need to tell you that I am very sadden and deeply hurt that I was not invited to your wedding reception in Atlanta. Thus, the purpose of email is to ask why, but more importantly to ask if you were me what how would you react to/handle this sadness and hurt.
I know that our friendship will change (always does), when someone gets married. …show more content…
(My gut is telling me that this is the reason, and if it is please know that out of pure respect of for my fellow female (ie your wife in this case) and my guy friends (ie you in this case), any and all conversations that take place in the past stay there. I never bring it up nor allude to them, as not to make other person who was not a part of the conversation feel left out, hurt, or even for a split second feel the slightest bit uncomfortable. In the case our friendship the "worst" thing that I might say is "Naveed, was a good friend to me when I really needed him and based on the advice he 's given me over the years I have a lot of respect for him."...and that worst case senairo of how "deep" I would go in terms of what I would say" All mention of long talks, shared stories, celebrated birthdays, march madness crazy are kept in the …show more content…
Both us living our lives as we always have but no longer caring or being concerned what is going on the other lives (ie marriages, babies, sickness, job promotions etc).
We remain acquaintances "friends" via FB and when mutual friends/acquaintances asks or mention the other we just remain quite, or just say yeah it 's been a while since we spoke.
We somehow get over it and get to the point that we 're friends again, knowing that asking "what 's new?" or "how 's life?" are perfectly acceptable questions to ask once or twice a year.
I am still in a state of confusion, sadness, and hurt as to what happened that you would not want to invite me to your wedding reception. Was this a fluke or is it meant to send a larger message? . While,it maybe hard to believe I really do not have any ill will towards you just a lot sadness, hurt and disappointment in regards to this whole situation.