Going With My Wife By Krizia Martinez

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On the surface it seems like I’d know everything that there is to know from my subject, but I know better than to assume so. This is why I decided to go with my wife, Krizia Martinez as the subject for my profile essay. My wife has gone through several tragic experiences in her short life of twenty-eight years, from her biological father leaving her at a young age, to her brother being imprisoned for nine years, and then two step-fathers falling to cancer. These experiences have shaped her into the person she is today and it shocks me how resilient a person can be. As losing family members or loved ones are a common theme to most people, I believe readers will find it interesting to read about her experiences and coping mechanisms through those

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