Cisneros and Tan both exemplifies the lives of women with traditional gender roles. The importance of gender that was placed on Cleofilas, Lindo, and Ying-Ying caused them all to be trapped within the confines of their marriages, no matter how miserable they are because of it. Because of how hopeless they felt in their relationships, they defined their gender norms. Cleofilas was faced with the thought of frowning her son and possibly herself within the creek that she grew to admire. Instead of taking the cowardly act of infanticide and suicide, Cleofilas runs away with a woman, Felice, who is the embodiment of an empowered woman. “Everything about his woman, this Felice, amazed Cleofilas. The fact that she drove a pickup. A pickup, mind you, but when Cleofilas asked if it was her husband’s, she said she didn’t have a husband. The pickup was hers. She herself had chosen it. She herself was paying for it” (Cisneros 55). The freedom that happiness gave her, Felice, allowed her to finally break the chains of male oppression. Lindo Jong was also able to capture freedom in The JOY LUCK CLUB. Using her mother-in-law’s superstition against her, Lindo was able to concoct a story which made her mother-in-law believe that Lindo’s marriage was not ordained by the ancestors. Therefore the marriage was annulled so that her husband could marry his “true” wife who was carrying his “spiritual child”. “How nice it is to be that girl again, to take off my scarf, to see what is underneath and feel the lightness come back into my body” (Tan 66). The ending other marriage meant the ability to continue her halted childhood and the chance to be happy again. Like Cleofilas and Lindo, Ying-Ying was married young and in a one-sided marriage. After her husband left and she aborted her child, she had nothing left. Even after she moved on and married
Cisneros and Tan both exemplifies the lives of women with traditional gender roles. The importance of gender that was placed on Cleofilas, Lindo, and Ying-Ying caused them all to be trapped within the confines of their marriages, no matter how miserable they are because of it. Because of how hopeless they felt in their relationships, they defined their gender norms. Cleofilas was faced with the thought of frowning her son and possibly herself within the creek that she grew to admire. Instead of taking the cowardly act of infanticide and suicide, Cleofilas runs away with a woman, Felice, who is the embodiment of an empowered woman. “Everything about his woman, this Felice, amazed Cleofilas. The fact that she drove a pickup. A pickup, mind you, but when Cleofilas asked if it was her husband’s, she said she didn’t have a husband. The pickup was hers. She herself had chosen it. She herself was paying for it” (Cisneros 55). The freedom that happiness gave her, Felice, allowed her to finally break the chains of male oppression. Lindo Jong was also able to capture freedom in The JOY LUCK CLUB. Using her mother-in-law’s superstition against her, Lindo was able to concoct a story which made her mother-in-law believe that Lindo’s marriage was not ordained by the ancestors. Therefore the marriage was annulled so that her husband could marry his “true” wife who was carrying his “spiritual child”. “How nice it is to be that girl again, to take off my scarf, to see what is underneath and feel the lightness come back into my body” (Tan 66). The ending other marriage meant the ability to continue her halted childhood and the chance to be happy again. Like Cleofilas and Lindo, Ying-Ying was married young and in a one-sided marriage. After her husband left and she aborted her child, she had nothing left. Even after she moved on and married