Throughout the passage, the mother dictates how her daughter should behave in society. The mother tells her daughter the following, “on Sundays try to walk like a lady and not like the slut you are so bent on becoming” (Kincaid 49). The mother is concerned that her daughter won’t find a husband the way she is behaving now. She worried about how people will perceive her daughter and how it will effect her future. Instead of being a kind and nurturing mother, she is conditioning her daughter to become a “perfect” wife for a man. By doing this, she is stripping her daughter of her own freedom and turning her into a man’s idealistic …show more content…
She states the following, “At night in any kind of light, in twilight, candlelight, lamplight, and worst of all by moonlight, it becomes bars! The outside pattern I mean, and the woman behind it is as plain as can be” (Gilman 240). The narrator is identifying with the woman who is “trapped” in the wallpaper. John has trapped her in the house and prevents her from doing the things she loves. This shows that the wife feels trapped and misses her life before they moved into the house. The house makes her feel like a prisoner in her own home. Although, John is a doctor and wants what is best for her, he is treating her like a child and is restricting her from things that could help her