Friar Lawrence Blame

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There are a few people at blame for the tragic deaths of Romeo and Juliet. While people may argue that they are responsible for their own actions, their ignorance however hinders them from seeing that if certain people had of done the morally right thing they wouldn’t have gone to such drastic lengths to be together forever. Friar Lawrence was a petty man, that can’t be trusted; he only had his best interests at mind. Not to mention the families, so hell bent on making sure the rift lasts forever, fuelled by rage and intense hatred for each other. I only wish people had of not been so selfish and seen what they were doing.

Friar Lawrence is a petty egotistical man. I should have known to stop Juliet, to put my foot down, as soon his name was
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He must have been insane to think that the families would ever end the age old feud; harmony between the families was simply unobtainable. What a fool he was. I have never liked that man even his name makes my stomach twist. From the second Romeo approached Friar Lawrence for help he made nothing but awful decisions. Of course, his first poorly made decision was to marry the couple. It broke neither state nor religious rules to marry the couple in secret but he knew what the families were like, the loathing that existed between the opposing peoples. And I will admit, he had his hesitation due to him feeling Romeo was far too young to truly know what love is, yet he still married them. He should have trusted his gut, and done the righteous thing, considering the two had only known each other for a measly 24 hours. Aside …show more content…
I don’t think they realised exactly what they were doing, or what it could result in, but I still can’t help but think how childish it was of them to restrict anyone to associate with the Montagues. Forcing Juliet to marry, when she clearly was repulsed by the thought was absolutely foolish. They should have realised that hate would only lead to harm however it wasn’t until one of their own, the young Juliet, was driven to a painful death did they realise what they were doing was wrong. Even then. After everything, they couldn’t even bare to look at the Montagues, to try and fix everything, was losing their own daughter not enough to open their eyes to the hideous truth? If the Capulets and Montagues had of resolved whatever caused this pompous feud, both Romeo and Juliet would have live a happy

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