It is to be used as a tool to allow the victim to not feel helpless, but to gain control of his/her life. Forgiving someone or a group of people that perpetrated such a horrific crime, does not equal to forgetting the act. To the contrary, it is a reminder the victim has made the perpetrator to acknowledge the crime, and realize the pain he or she inflicted to the victim. The perpetrator can ask for forgiveness multiple times, but until the victim has reach the point where is ready to let go of the “poison” the anger has inflicted on him/her. Simon Wiesenthal, at the time Karl, the dying SS officer, asked him to forgive him for the crimes he committed to other Jews, was not able to grant such forgiveness. He was currently experiencing the harsh treatment from other SS officers, so he was not ready to let go of the suffering he was experiencing. However, I do think after further reflection, once Simon was ready to let go of his pain, he should have been able to grant forgiveness for Karl, even though it was after
It is to be used as a tool to allow the victim to not feel helpless, but to gain control of his/her life. Forgiving someone or a group of people that perpetrated such a horrific crime, does not equal to forgetting the act. To the contrary, it is a reminder the victim has made the perpetrator to acknowledge the crime, and realize the pain he or she inflicted to the victim. The perpetrator can ask for forgiveness multiple times, but until the victim has reach the point where is ready to let go of the “poison” the anger has inflicted on him/her. Simon Wiesenthal, at the time Karl, the dying SS officer, asked him to forgive him for the crimes he committed to other Jews, was not able to grant such forgiveness. He was currently experiencing the harsh treatment from other SS officers, so he was not ready to let go of the suffering he was experiencing. However, I do think after further reflection, once Simon was ready to let go of his pain, he should have been able to grant forgiveness for Karl, even though it was after