Fighting Is Very Healthy In A Relationship

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I personally believe fighting is very healthy in a relationship, from experience the relationships I rarely fought in I wasn’t very compassionate in, they lasted very short. The ones I have fought in have lasted very long. Fighting lets you express your true feelings, that way you can openly discuss between the two of you how you feel about something. However, fighting to much in a relationship can be dangerous, if you never see eye to eye, but arguing or expressing your feelings can help you see that you don’t get you out of that relationship quicker then you would if you never argued.
.“opposites attract” It takes a real love to be able to talk about your beliefs and put your differences aside

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