But underneath the surface, you see there are more to the characters then the gender roles that the society of the time assigned to men and women. Throughout the film there is this grand assumption that women want to be married. “No woman chooses to have a life without a home,” Betty Warren (Kirsten Dunst) Says to Giselle Levy (Maggie Gyllenhaal), talking about Katherine not being, or not wanting to be married. During the time period it was unheard of for a woman not to want to be married. The same didn’t go for men, although it was also expected of men to get married and have a family, they weren’t raised with the idea that they had to be the perfect husband. There was a gender assumption in the 1950’s that women had to get married and become mothers. That was their goal and purpose in life. Many women conformed to society’s ideals simply because everyone else was. This is still true with some women today. Many women become wives and mothers simply to conform to the expectations of the family and society around them and not really because that is what they want (Natarajan). In the scene where Joan (Julia Stiles) tells Betty she applied to Yale, Betty response to the idea that Joan might want to go to law school with disgust saying, “Why?! You don’t want to be a lawyer!” There was no question in Betty’s mind that Joan should want to get married. Betty ends the talk saying, “You are this close to getting everything you wanted; and this close to losing
But underneath the surface, you see there are more to the characters then the gender roles that the society of the time assigned to men and women. Throughout the film there is this grand assumption that women want to be married. “No woman chooses to have a life without a home,” Betty Warren (Kirsten Dunst) Says to Giselle Levy (Maggie Gyllenhaal), talking about Katherine not being, or not wanting to be married. During the time period it was unheard of for a woman not to want to be married. The same didn’t go for men, although it was also expected of men to get married and have a family, they weren’t raised with the idea that they had to be the perfect husband. There was a gender assumption in the 1950’s that women had to get married and become mothers. That was their goal and purpose in life. Many women conformed to society’s ideals simply because everyone else was. This is still true with some women today. Many women become wives and mothers simply to conform to the expectations of the family and society around them and not really because that is what they want (Natarajan). In the scene where Joan (Julia Stiles) tells Betty she applied to Yale, Betty response to the idea that Joan might want to go to law school with disgust saying, “Why?! You don’t want to be a lawyer!” There was no question in Betty’s mind that Joan should want to get married. Betty ends the talk saying, “You are this close to getting everything you wanted; and this close to losing