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Learning by experiences is always regarded the best form of learning. This because the experience imparts an impact lesson in your life that you never tend to forget. Throughout my upbringing, there are some events that I have forgotten while others I still remember like they just happened. This is because of the type of experiences that came along with it. In the neighborhood that I was raised I witnessed such events that were disturbing and hard to forget. To begin with, it is understandable that poverty and drug abuse caused many families to fallout, the one who suffer the most are the innocent children. I vividly recall of such family in my neighborhood. A lot had happened for the family …show more content…
Through the conformity orientation and conversation orientation would help in establishing relationship for both the parents and the children thus focus of avoiding conflicts (Koerner, & Fitzpatrick, 1997). The family is regarded as a having the most cherished relationship in the context of sharing the blood bond. The above family dysfunction is caused by an alcoholic father means the father is very chaotic and unreasonable most times. This makes it hard to establish relationship with the children as expectations tends to vary each day, difficulty in keeping secrets, mistrust and the general difficulty in emotional expression. In the normal functioning healthy family setup the dimension in which the family creates an environment in which family members are encouraged to communicate freely in a wide range of topics. This is the complete opposite in the families that having dysfunctions such as the alcoholic father is having unpredictable behavior, reacting spontaneously with many several limitations. These behaviors in such families lead to less interaction between the …show more content…
These invention programs according to Pedro-Carol & Cowen, the intervention programs create an environment and atmosphere in which allow the children share their feelings freely on a family dysfunction such as divorce. These programs have structures in which the children misconceptions are clarified reducing their isolation; building competency; encourage communication and anger control (Pedro-Carroll, & Cowen, 1985). It is always a tough time for the children when the parents are divorcing and parting ways. So much emotion is involved as the family is disintegrated down by divorce and alcoholism as was in the above situation. In the above situation the children are subjected to hurt and pain from their parents behavior. The children have been subjected to the parental inadequacy in which the mother tends to consider divorce while the father is drowned in alcoholism. Thus the children are subjected in assuming the adult responsibility trying to fend for them from the tender age. Parental inadequacy robs the children from their own childhood thus such has prolonged effect on the child such as assuming the adult role taking care of the younger siblings. These difficulties are quite common as most family divorcing have resultant adverse effects on the children. The intervention programs come