According to “The Four Styles of Parenting” by Kendra Cherry, she states that permissive parents have very few demands to make of their children, are nontraditional and lenient, allow considerable self-regulation and have relatively low expectations of maturity and self-control. In “The Glass Castle” by Jeannette Walls, she explores lots of memories about her parents and often describes their parenting styles. In my opinion, her parents perfectly align with Cherry’s assessment of Permissive Parenting. According to Jeannette, her parents let the children do whatever they wanted without boundaries or restrictions.…
ESSAY 1: What Would You Do For A Crying Baby? Ng Xin-Ru, Victoria 1403271H Crying suggests a physiological maturational development, which requires adjustment and adaptation. Crying is not a signal for help or relief, as it does not require intervention (Thomson & Leeds, 2014). Infants communicate their needs to their caregiver through crying (Soltis, 2004), thus, being able to evaluate the infant’s cries is an important skill for caregivers to develop.…
The Permissive parenting style is a ‘no discipline’ approach. This style of parenting usually involves emotional warmth but a reluctance to enforce rules. They use reasoning or manipulation to get what they want but they avoid using evident power (Dewar, 2010). Parents that exercise the Permissive style are indulgent and passive and believe that the way to demonstrate love is to give into their children’s wishes. They invoke phrases such as, “sure, you can stay up late if you want to,” and “you do not need to do any chores if you don’t feel like it.”…
Throughout this essay I will be discussing the significance of attachment theory for social work practitioners and how they can implement this to develop emotional functioning with younger children. In addition I will examine how the theory has changed and progressed since John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth first “attempts to examine the psychological effects of early relationships” ( Goldberg,2000, pg3) to more contemporary approach such as Michael Rutter’s book on “Maternal Deprivation reassessed” critiquing Bowlby and the development in neuroscience. Attachment theory can be defined as a “lasting psychological connectedness between human beings” (Bowlby 1969, p. 194). John Bowlby, “a British psychoanalyst’ work attempted to understand the…
Just being in the same room, as your child does not mean parents are not neglecting their children, parents must constantly be a part of their children’s lives, and interact with them. Moreover, ask them about their day and friends. Permissive parenting is parents treating their children as equals, meaning that their children are on the same adult level as them (Mgbemere and Telles). Besides delegating authority, the parents will ask the children to complete a project or bride them gifts to do chores. These children often will disobey the law and authoritative figures such as teachers.…
Adult Attachment Interview During my childhood, I experienced a fair amount of ups and downs. I had a happy and joyful childhood up until the age of six or seven. I was raised by my grandmother, aunt, and mother in China while my father was working in the United States. The five years where I was raised in China before I immigrated to the United States are where my fondest memories are stored. I was very close to my mother growing up but also my aunt and grandmother.…
The term attachment describes a bond between individuals that is developed over time. Attachments are usually to our primary caregivers, this process is considered to be biological and present from birth (Prior and Glaser 2006). The formation of attachments is a psychological connectedness that is lasting between individuals, Bowlby (1969) Due to this, it is an integral part in the way we develop relationships.…
Compared to their peers, children who are exposed to this form of upbringing are far more likely to develop longer-term noncompliant anti-social behaviours and conduct disorders (Smith et al.,…
As a child is born the first interaction they encounter (bad word) is to form an important attachment. The bond that forms between mother and child when the child is only moments old is to solidify their bond. Although placing the child on mother’s chest is a form of comfort to relieve the stress of birth on baby and a way to keep baby warm; it is also the first time the baby becomes attached to another being outside of the womb. (back this up). Cookman (2005)…
Permissive parents, he says, set poor examples, are inconsistent and don 't teach responsibility. The author is correct that overly permissive parenting can be harmful and according to authors Lesser and Pope, children who are a product of permissive parenting show higher levels of impulsivity, show less ability to persist on tasks, tend to be more demanding and show lower school achievement (280). The problem with Duke 's argument is that he is allowing for only two types of parenting and if you don 't spank, then you must be permissive. However, there are many types of parenting styles and a healthy balance is creating appropriate boundaries and limitations and using discipline without resorting to physical violence. Duke also claims that violence being taught is a "nonsensical assertion" but gives us no evidence as to why this is so.…
Treatment Goals Treatment goals to be used are based on the Attachment theory. The purpose of the treatment is to assist Ben and Katie to construct a secure base. The first step in the therapy process is to work on the triangulation relationship they have with their children. It is important to create appropriate boundaries (not too enmeshed or not too rigid). Besides, another area that is needed to be worked is the hierarchy for each family member.…
B. Brenda Bonilla The current reading and chapter two of the Victimology textbook are connected because they both express the importance of attachments to the family in an adolescent’s life and the link between victimization and offending. Attachment to the family plays a pivotal role in an adolescent’s life. In the reading, Specifying the Influence of Family and Peers on Violent Victimization it states that strong bonds to family members should remove would-be victims from other offenders, and a strong attachment with parents will help keep children closer to home and away from ties with other adolescents who are delinquents (p.46). Chapter two is connected to the current reading because they also state that having strong attachments to…
Psychological theories focus on the instinctive and psychological qualities of those who abuse. It is abnormalities that the individual abuser is responsible for abuse, for example, abusive parents may themselves have been abuse in childhood (Corby 2000). Attachment theory comes from the work of Bowlby (1951) who carried out research into the nature and effects of maternal lack on young children. He theorized that any significant separation of a child from the mother in the first five years of life could lead to a variety of psychological and social difficulties in later life since proper bonding and attachment to the mother was crucial if a child was to benefit from physical protection and psychological security. Until the mid 1980s, attachment…
With an autocratic parenting style it is obvious that there is a parent and a child or one can look at it as an inferior and superior relationship. This has been found not to be as effective because there is no responsibility in these types of children. These children have no free choice in anything which can make it difficult for them especially when they are confronted with tough choices of their own. Permissive parenting is just as ineffective as autocratic parenting because of the children doing what they want when they want. There is no level of control and these children are also more inclined to experimenting with drugs, sex and alcohol.…
Able et al. (2001) have conducted research on various sleeping arrangements in different ethnic groups; Pakeha, Maori, Pacific people which include Tongan, Samoan, Cook Islander and Niuean with their infants under 12 month in New Zealand. This essay focuses on the comparison in infant sleeping arrangements among different culture. Moreover, further discussion of attachment theory in which mainly focusing on Ainsworth (1979) research findings and a hypothesis on relationships between maternal behavior and infant behavior with its effect on various sleeping arrangements.…