The Marriage Hack Dr. Eli Finkel Analysis

Marriage is when two people make their relationship official, and permanent in a way which it is suppose to last forever until “death do us part”. Then again, for the past century, we have seen this practice of marriage increasingly cut short by the tragedy of divorce. Until death do us part can last several decades in a marriage, and a lot can happen during those decades of life. Your life changes and goes by every day and you can’t take a single one back or for granted. Your body changes, personality, loved people around you come and go, and your romantic love waxes and wanes. For most married couples, satisfaction declines over time, meaning that couples typically become less and less happy with their relationships the longer they’ve been together. In the video “The Marriage Hack” by Dr. Eli Finkel, he describes how no marriage is free of conflict. While addressing that point, he keys that the most important thing to understand is what enables and endures how to actually handle the conflicts that marriage comes …show more content…
The meaning of this is to maybe bring a hobby or some type of motivation back into your life that you can focus on that makes you happy. Having a happy soul is essential to having happy loved ones around you. Don’t rely on a partner to make your life great, work to make a great life regardless. Then when you are content with your own life start doing activities and with your partner that you both can share the same love for. Couples need to realize that communicating about each others needs are very important for a healthy, long while relationship. Bottling it up inside until the last point of your emotional well-being decreases relationship satisfaction. Couples biggest problems is how they go about a conflict and peruse it. If couples can at least meet where both needs are met in a relationship your satisfaction will go