Explain How To Deal With Disagreements With Children

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This can be hard to deal with disagreements with younger children because they could cry and it’s very hard to make them understand why they are in the wrong. When children are young and first start school they can have many disagreements. They find it hard to know how to handle their feelings. These disagreements need to be solved with straight away.
You need to have correct behaviour yourself so that children can learn what is good behaviour and what is not. If a child sees that you are kind and to others around you, they may follow how you act. When dealing with arguments you need to find out what it is about first by going back to the beginning and asking the children what has happened. Don’t forget to ask each child for their sides. Ask

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