Exercise 3.6 An Intentional Conversation Analysis

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Exercise 3.6 An intentional Conversation
What was it like to listen intentionally instead of using other skills (e.g. questions)?
The conversation I am choosing to analyses occurred yesterday, between my sister in law and myself. It was not pre-arranged, however, I think it will work well for this analysis. Initially, I just listened, and as things progresses I asked simple follow up questions. I was very intentional to not give advice, initially.
How did your conversation partner react?
My sister in law opened up and shared details about recent decisions, health concerns, and a conflict with another family member. I asked questions and she added more details. As I listened an asked simple questions she added details and reflected on the

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