Examples Of Obsession In The Great Gatsby

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We know the differences between love and obsession. Love is a feeling of affection to something; an emotional and/or sexual attraction to someone. Love is pure and can be happy but obsession is different. Obsession is a thought of someone or something that keeps occurring in one's mind over and over again. It’s a compulsion that can form an unreasonable idea or emotion. Having an obsession with someone can lead you to objectify them. Seeing someone as an object that one wants rather than a human being that is alive and has their own life. Relationships should be based on love but one is based on an obsession and the objectification of both partners. This relationship between Daisy and Gatsby is the definition of obsession and objectification because Gatsby only wants her so he can complete his perfect life. …show more content…
The green light was something he looked out upon again and again to picture Daisy and make it Daisy. Since Daisy became the green light to him, when he has her in his arms it didn’t feel truly full to him. He seemed to want more than Daisy had. Nick states from his observations, “Possibly it had occurred to him that the colossal significance of that light had now vanished forever”(V.93). Gatsby’s realization of Daisy and she didn’t fully reach his expectations, the green light, shined through his words. He knew that she didn’t fit everything he wanted, yet he still wanted her more than any other girl. His obsession with her caused him to go blind to himself and his feelings for Daisy. He could have loved her or thought he loved her since she was so important and amazing to

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