Personal conflict
The conflict I encountered was me and my husband fought about how to raise our daughter. I choose to raise her with a cause and effect method. Basically let her learn on her own and show her what I can. My husband want to start disciplining her and showing her right from wrong. Our daughter is seven month old, she can say four words. I think that makes her crazy smart but not smart enough to know the difference between inside and outside voices. My husband seem to think that she can learn that and much more before she one.
While every child learns differently, I still find it hard to believe that you can teach a child to control their voice when they barely know how to use it. I think there a time for that later on maybe …show more content…
This is why I have choose to make this the conflict of my paper so I can analysis it. Even though analyzing problem won’t give me an answer it might help me understand both of our reasoning behind our parenting. I chose to do the “five whys method”. This method you keep asking why you tell get to the problem. I decided to use this method because it seemed the most logical to use for this kind of problem. The beginning of our conflict is that we have two different method of raising our daughter which don’t coincided with each other. This why method you ask the why as many time as it take to get to root of the problem. I’m unsure what the counter measure would …show more content…
Why don’t we find another way that different then both of our way of parenting her?
Then we would have to choose someone else way that doesn’t come natural to us or our child. This would mean that every time we tried to teach her something we would have to look up the way to do it instead of going with our instinct.
4. Why is parenting a child seem so hard?
This is because although people have been doing it for a long time, it not a perfect science and there no true book on how to do it. There no book or official way because every child is different.
5. Why are we parenting her?
Without rules or an outline for our life we are nothing but total chaos. Even animal in the jungle parent there youngling. Parenting is important to the child development. The simplest parts of teaching you child between the years 0-5 are the information a base for there lives. The fact state after 4 months our daughter can stand or sit up with help without causing damage to the ankles. Every child is different if a child had calcium deficient or was overweight stand two soon could cause them to have bowleg. Which would cause great problem when they learn to walk or terminal problem walking and spine problems in their
The conflict I encountered was me and my husband fought about how to raise our daughter. I choose to raise her with a cause and effect method. Basically let her learn on her own and show her what I can. My husband want to start disciplining her and showing her right from wrong. Our daughter is seven month old, she can say four words. I think that makes her crazy smart but not smart enough to know the difference between inside and outside voices. My husband seem to think that she can learn that and much more before she one.
While every child learns differently, I still find it hard to believe that you can teach a child to control their voice when they barely know how to use it. I think there a time for that later on maybe …show more content…
This is why I have choose to make this the conflict of my paper so I can analysis it. Even though analyzing problem won’t give me an answer it might help me understand both of our reasoning behind our parenting. I chose to do the “five whys method”. This method you keep asking why you tell get to the problem. I decided to use this method because it seemed the most logical to use for this kind of problem. The beginning of our conflict is that we have two different method of raising our daughter which don’t coincided with each other. This why method you ask the why as many time as it take to get to root of the problem. I’m unsure what the counter measure would …show more content…
Why don’t we find another way that different then both of our way of parenting her?
Then we would have to choose someone else way that doesn’t come natural to us or our child. This would mean that every time we tried to teach her something we would have to look up the way to do it instead of going with our instinct.
4. Why is parenting a child seem so hard?
This is because although people have been doing it for a long time, it not a perfect science and there no true book on how to do it. There no book or official way because every child is different.
5. Why are we parenting her?
Without rules or an outline for our life we are nothing but total chaos. Even animal in the jungle parent there youngling. Parenting is important to the child development. The simplest parts of teaching you child between the years 0-5 are the information a base for there lives. The fact state after 4 months our daughter can stand or sit up with help without causing damage to the ankles. Every child is different if a child had calcium deficient or was overweight stand two soon could cause them to have bowleg. Which would cause great problem when they learn to walk or terminal problem walking and spine problems in their