I have always hated confrontation and I am willingly to help other as much as I can, at work staying behind help when there isn’t much people for the job or helping others who are behind their work. I tend to be the person that others comes for advice or to sort personal problems. I dislike opening up to others and expressing my feeling and thoughts and only do so with those I trust and extremely close with (which is stated in the ISFJ profile and I found this to be fully accurate). Family is really important to me, I rarely ask others for help. I am supportive of others if it reasonable, even though I am supportive, moral and rights and wrongs do guide my …show more content…
What I liked and dislikes and what I prefer and what I do, I never understand why I am this way, but the profile help me. It help me to understand why I am moved to help others and go out of my way to help any way I can and even though it can be draining and affect me when I put my needs aside (of course it got me in trouble by close friends and family that suggest I take care of myself as well) but I do find helping others to be rewarding. As I mention a lot throughout the paper, I am terrible at expressing myself and this is known as a weakness of ISFJ. ISFJ have other weakness that I never view as my weakness, and was not aware of it. One of the weakness is being humble and shy, being hard on myself, I tend to believe that what I do is good enough and therefore contributed to downplaying my hard work or moving up or taking credit for my work. Another is taking things too personal, I cannot separate personal and business, I take everything to heart and care too much that I cannot separate feeling and logic, and any negativity from work can lead to my personal matter and vice versa. The third weakness is not a surprised to me, but it’s the lacking of healthy emotional expression that can lead to stress and frustration. The fourth is overload, sense of duty and being a perfectionists and trying to tackle the needs of others and my own can be overbearing. Next one is being reluctant to