Cool / Calm Down
-Time Out Table( sand play , feelings balloons etc..)
-Fingertips together
-Belly breathing
-Stroke back of hands
-Thinking of happy place
Forced Choice
Good choice/Bad choice
Leads to Good/Bad Consequences
Don't get ''hooked''- child have the power to decide/ control action
Think ahead – what will happen if the child make this choice?
Shirt or pants first. Your choice. – Shower or bath. Your choice – Meat or potatoes. Your choice (Greene 2010)
Picking the “hills” to die on – Basket A (high priority; must be dealt with immediately) – Basket B (high priority; can be dealt with later) – Basket C (low priority; do you really want to go there?) (Greene 2010)
Positive reinforcement
Talking about