What a great analogy with using a stud-finder. It would allow a coach to see when something is not quite right, or out of alignment, as you suggested. However, stud-finders are not 100% accurate all the time. As my husband and I have experienced. Therefore, a coach also has to realize they may need another tool in their toolbox, for emergencies. Sometimes as people go through life they realize that there may be something a little to the left or to the right, such as a stud not in alignment. Perhaps, even shades of black and white, which becomes shades of gray. Holy Spirit, is a good example of a gray area, in my opinion of helping us to decide if something is not black or white. For example, if a person is mad at someone, does a person tell
