She has relentless determination to succeed which Walker illustrates with Dee’s stare. “She was determined to stare down any disaster in her efforts. Her eyelids would not flicker for minutes at a time” (Walker, 168). Sam Whitsitt makes the observation that the concentration Dee uses to stand up to whites in the South estranged her from her black family. “But making it, for Dee, and no doubt many others, had a price. The force required to stare the white world down was equaled by the intensity of a gaze, which burned her links to the past” (Whitsitt, 448). It is exactly this confidence and determination that cause her to seem arrogant and pretentious when she interacts with her …show more content…
She wants to be able to show people how far out of the ashes she has risen to her successful station in life. Dee’s desire to use the old quilts for decoration rather than for everyday use shows a major misunderstanding on her part. The historical and familial value of the quilts does not come from looking at them, but from continuing to use them and repair them. “Dee views her heritage as an artifact which she can possess and appreciate from a distance instead of as a process in which she is always intimately involved” (Piedmont-Marton, 45). Dee’s aloof attitude about her family history comes from her sense that she has succeeded in life and is now distinguished from her humble