Incongruence:
-She wants to be mature and make decisions on her own but feels she needs reassurance
-She feels she either needs to lie to maintain her image or be ‘bad.
-Choosing things she doesn't want to do.
-Feels she goes against herself
-She wants to take more risks and feels she does not
-Hates herself is she lies, wants to be more accepting
-Her ideal self is a good person and she feels she is not
-She doesn’t accurately view organismic experience of making a decision because she feels she is not good enough
-She feels immature because she needs reassurance. She does not accurately symbolize getting help because she feels she should be more mature and do this on her own.
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Empathetic listening: This is when the counselor sense and address what the clients are feeling …show more content…
Unconditional positive regard: This is a warm and accepting attitude form the counselor to the client. This is not person specific. It is an unconditional and universal acceptance and positive attitude towards the client.
Examples:
-Keeps nodding his head and encouraging her to speak more.
-Never discouraging and keeps consistently positive regard
-He said “I believe in backing up people in what they want to do”
-Even when she gets a little angry, he reassures her.
Counselor congruence: This is when the counselor is genuine in their feelings and reflect the very things they are trying to promote with the client. A congruent counselor is a complete human with all emotions that are appropriately expressed. When the organismic experiences are matched with awareness and the counselor can freely express themselves appropriately.
Examples:
-He is honest about his “concerns”
-He is honest about what he is specifically trying to help her do.
-Talks about discrepancies in what they are both thinking.
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Organismic valuing process evidence: I believe there are examples of