Essay On Middle School Clique

the clique Middle school was the point in ever middles scholar life to find a group where they fit in. these groups were called clicks, a group centered around gossiping about others and even gossiping about one another in the group. In middle school this group became your community. The group you do every thing with and tell everything too. This group is almost like your other family. Sadly, this community the people you surround yourself with can lead to negative thinking about others. This community can fail by putting others down in certain community you associate yourself with. Going in to middle school for me, was terrifying. I did not know anyone and all I wanted to do was make friends. However, I soon introduced myself to these two girls. When I was done telling them my name and who I was they were very welcoming and invited me into there big group they had already established. After being excepted in this group, they stared to talk bad about some random person. I, still wanting to be in this group started talking about this person as well. I remember feeing dad and ashamed of myself for doing this. However, I thought it was what I had to do to stay in this group. As days went on, this group started to became my life. I never talked to …show more content…
It got to a point when I would go on Facebook I would always see a mean and hurtful status about someone. The status never said who individual was they were talking about. But I always knew who it was about. Social media became a place where everyone could see that we were talking about someone, but others didn’t know who we were exactly talking about. We started to use social media as a second pace to gossip. It became another community where we talked about others. Social media in the group became a positive thing to us, but what it really became to us was a negative thing. We put others down, and did not build them