“The Truth about Lying” by Judith Viorst Summary In “The Truth About Lying”, the narrator classify s the different kind of lies due to social, peace-keeping, trust-keeping and protective lies. The author explains the reason of lying. Viorst ask her reader’s opinion about those lies after she manifest her own thoughts. At the end of the story, the author concludes that she agrees what her friend said “Others may completely accept the lie I’m telling, I don’t.”…
In the article "The Ways We Lie" the author, Stephanie Ericsson, tells the tale of how frequent individuals lie in our world of today. Hence, she decided then to completely tell the truth for an entire week realizing, lying was somewhat of a natural instinct that many had to do at least once. Furthermore, Stephanie then began to categorize different types of lies in order to justify the reason as to why one would lie in that given type of way. Therefore, she placed lies in categories such as deflecting, white lies, omissions, facades, dismissal, ignoring the plain facts, group think, delusion, and out-and-out lies. In the end, she had gotten fired from her job, added stress to her personal relationship, and hurt others.…
Consider the following situations. In the first, you are an educator at the local university. You hear there is a crazed man demanding to see one of your students. Upon hiding the student in the room, you tell the man that the student did not attend class today and you don’t know where he is. Conversely, you work for a large company in New York, and it is your secretary is leaving in a few days for maternity leave.…
Telling the truth all the time is nearly infeasible. Stephanie Ericsson’s essay titled, “The Ways We Lie” breaks down the activity of lying into subcategories of the different kinds of lies we tell on a daily basis. In addition, Ericsson’s essay manages to point out the elemental role that lying plays in our lives and our culture. We all lie, whether to abstain from confrontation, spare people’s feelings, conveniently forget, keep secrets, or even to justify our own words and actions. By clarifying the extent into which we all lie, Ericsson begins to insinuate the many, many ways we fib, by listing and describing each lie in it’s natural element.…
Can a lie not telling the truth, or is it telling a story that may or may not be true, but it is just a story. Our world, as I…
Despite several variations presented with each fib, I found myself picking two of these ten prevarications from the list, and being able to relate these types of lies with my own personal experience. In other words, I have been guilty of committing a white lie and putting up a façade when it comes to pinpointing the type of fabrication l use on a daily basis. The form in which Stephanie Ericsson defines a white lie and façades, is by either describing some of her own experience and encounter with these two types of lies, or utilizing a relatable example of how each lie can play in a person’s life. In regards to telling a white lie, Ericsson states, “The white lie assumes that the truth will cause more damage than a simple, harmless untruth.…
Telling the truth all the time is nearly infeasible. Stephanie Ericsson’s essay titled, “The Ways We Lie” breaks down the activity of lying into subcategories of the different kinds of lies we tell on a daily basis. In addition, Ericsson’s essay manages to point out the elemental role that lying plays in our lives and our culture. We all lie, whether to abstain from confrontation, spare people’s feelings, conveniently forget, keep secrets, or even to justify our own words and actions. By clarifying the extent into which we all lie, Ericsson insinuates an abundance of ways in which we fib, by listing and describing each lie in its natural element.…
A lie is like an eclipse covering the sun. The lie affects everything that it touches; it can cause crops to die from not sunlight, like people can die without truth. However the truth will eventually come out, and the crops will right themselves, but people cannot. Sometimes a bad truth is better than a good lie. Like the sun behind the moon the truth will eventually come out for all to see, and it is better to come out when it is discovered rather than someone having to pry to get it out.…
There are numerous types of lies and a plethora of reasons for why someone would tell a lie. Some people lie to spare the feelings of others, some people lie to cover something up that they have done, and some people lie mainly to hurt others for the fun of it.…
In the novel, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, Mark Haddon presents the idea that there are different levels of lying and the lies affect relationships. In the story, the reader learns that Christopher does not believe in lying and in turn he refuses to lie. Even though, Christopher says that he does not believe in lying, he tells white lies many times in the novel. However, Christopher’s father does not tell white lies, he tells more severe lies that have a strong effect on Christopher. Both Christopher’s lies and his father’s lies have a strong effect on their relationship and this causes a drift.…
Lying, this word might mean different things to different people; however, one thing that everybody can agree on is that there is nobody that has never told a lie. People lie naturally, whether it be to get out of embarrassing situations, please a friend, or even write a fiction book, which in itself is simply a collection of lies written by a somewhat creative person. The Great Gatsby is a perfect example of how and why people lie, as well as what types of lies people use. The characters in this book by Scott F. Fitzgerald which depicts the world of the wealthy as a world full of illusions and deceits, display several types of lies, ranging from a benign white lie, to a full-fledged deceitful, harmful lie. Stephanie Ericsson, the author of…
Deborah Tannen, in “Sex, Lies, and Conversation,” an essay published in the 1990 The Washington Post, addressed misunderstandings to curb controversies regarding a chapter from Tannen’s 1986 book That’s Not What I Meant!. Tannen, a teacher at Georgetown University provides the public with scholarly research in the battlefield of communication between the sexes; bringing to light the stereotypical debate to whom is at fault in the negative communicational skills that endanger relationships. Stephanie Ericsson, in “The Ways We Lie,” a cover article from a 1993 issue of the Utne Reader, references life experiences, classifications, and quotes to rationalize the human need to lie. Ericsson, a screenwriter, a copywriter, and a recovering addict uses personal experiences to persuade readers that lying is an art form that cannot be lived without sending the assumption that lying is as vital to life as air is to breathing. Ericsson states “Sure I lie, but it doesn’t hurt anything.”…
The Out And Out Lies can cause an argument with anyone and can’t “refashion reality, it tries to refute it” (Ericsson). The Out And Out lies are like watching someone break an expensive item and when you confront then they would lie about breaking that particular item. Third, this lie is known as Dismissal. “Dismissal is perhaps the slipperiest of all lies” *(p. 166).…
“It 's not the lie that bothers me, it the insult of my intelligence that I find offensive.” Everyone was taught when they were little that lying is bad and the truth will get you further in life. In some aspects lying can get you out of trouble now, but that lie that you will tell will come back to get you in the future. Each play has a character that lies just to prove a point, to prove that they are strong. The Children 's Hour, Trifles and A Doll House all have one common theme; each play has various different lies.…
How many times have you lied to get out of trouble? In these passages, two characters show us that lying isn't always the best thing to do. “The Emperors Test,” was set in a distant land, far away, however, “The Mystery Ingredient,” was set in modern times. Even though there is a humongous time gap, there are many similarities between the two stories.…