Empty Nest Syndrome Essay

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The Empty nest syndrome is the time of life that parents have to deal with their children finishing high school and leaving home to attend college, get a job far from home, or join the military. The feelings for parents with Empty nest syndrome are feeling lonely, unhappy, and/or worrisome. (Feldman, 2014.p.519). Many parents feel some great adjustments must take place in order to properly cope with this stage of family life. According to (Feldman, 2014), women, especially those who have remained home as homemakers experience these feelings and often find themselves within Empty Nest Syndrome. Research shows that fathers deal with this time of life a little differently. One report showed fathers who's children had recently left home showed them “either happy or neutral about this departure.”(Feldman, 2014). Most of those showing signs of real struggle with empty nest syndrome are the mothers. Research suggests that this might be due to the mothers being more involved throughout the childrearing ages.(Feldman, 2014).

Not everyone in the stage of the ‘empty nest’ show feelings of
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God will strengthen you and bless you beyond measure if you have sought Him during this time. He will be more than enough for you and your spouse during this stage and every stage of life….:)
Psalm 23:1-4
The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. 4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley,I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
Here are some other verses that I have sought during times of uncertainty and sadness. I believe holding on to the truth and authority of God’s word will not only help us to survive this season but THRIVE throughout each season we face:) Raising

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