Emotional Intelligence In Relationship By Marcus Freudenmann Analysis

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The video by "Marcus Freudenmann, Emotional Intelligence in Relationship" explains about how our emotions affect our relationships. Freudenmann says that many people tend to remember the negative things that happen in the past relationships more than the positive things which, ultimately, these memories that we have in our thoughts affect the current and future relationships. Freudenmann adds that because our thoughts creat certain images of people and the images affect our emotions and reactions, all that influence the relationships. Freudenmann also explains the power of emotions, especially, the negative emotions, such as anger and madness; these negative emotions can affect physical response and our thoughts and creat vicious circle. In

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