You want guys who are doing something productive and positive such as going to work or attending to school. Even though there are bad people who are working and going to school, don't let this deter you, there are still progressive people doing these things as well. You also want a guy who is clean-cut and most importantly, clean of alcohol and drugs. Alcohol and drugs can make a person become something totally out of their element. You don't want this person's personality affecting you with potentially abusive ways that are hurting you, so stay away from them. You want guys who are nice and like to read books, but also has some street smarts to know that alcohol and liquor will hurt them. You don't want a guy who is Superman per se, but a maintenance man who at least has a job. You want someone who is very respectful to their family. If a guy disrespects his own mama, this loser wouldn't think twice about disrespecting you. You may also want a guy who is religious or at least spiritual to some degree. You want someone who is wholesome like a healthy eater or an artist. When it comes to the women friends in your life, let go of the ones who have a 'hoodrat mentality and are belligerent. These women will decrease the quality of your life detemrinetally. Search for posts and pictures related to these things and you will be attracting winners into your life in no time while eliminating losers once and for …show more content…
Women like to talk. In the "player" community it's a well-known fact that if you just sit and listen to a woman, she will tell you everything about her and love you more. As a woman, it is your job to evaluate a man's true intentions and motives to find out if he's Mr. Right, so how can you do this when you're talking incessantly. It's a very hard thing to do and sometimes you need to just take a break, sit back and listen. Listen to what the man is saying. If he is being too silent about the conversation, then he may be trying to run game on you. Women, for the most part, like mysterious guys who they don't know much about. And this thought process can be detrimental to attracting Mr. Right, because how can you know it's him if you don't know him? Listening can help you tremendously by assisting you in thinking more logically instead of emotionally about the situation. One way of doing this is by asking open-ended questions. Get him talking about himself, but don't be too naggy about it. Ask him what his likes and dislikes are. Bring up hot news topics and ask his opinions about them. If he is Mr. Right, he wouldn't mind talking about these things, in fact, he prefers talking about them. Another great way of evaluating a man's true intentions and personality is by simply asking him direct questions that he either has to answer yes or no to. I remember an associate of mine showed me a trick called NOWHERE. What you do