Elders In The Giver

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At some point in a person’s life, they grow old. It happens to everyone. The way seniors are treated around the world varies greatly, depending on where they live. Some elders are honored and celebrated, like in Korea. Whereas, in the United states, when a person becomes old, they are expected to go to a nursing home, where they will be cared for. In The Giver, elders live at The House of the Old, but are not cared for by their family. They are cared for by the people that work there, and by volunteers. The articles “7 Cultures That Celebrate Aging And Respect Their Elders” and “How the elderly are treated around the world” show how the elderly are treated and respected in different places around the world. Some cultures honor and respect their elders, as they do in The Giver, but some cultures feel seniors weigh down on families and on the society.

In some countries, such as Korea, the elders are treated and respected greatly, which is similar as to how elders are treated in The Giver. As stated in “ 7 Cultures That Celebrate Aging And Respect Their Elders,” in Korea, “ Younger members of the family have a duty to care for the aging members of the family. And even outside the
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This is similar to The Giver because in chapter four of The Giver, the text shows how kids volunteer their time at the House of the Old and take care of the elderly. For instance, in chapter four, Jonas goes to the House of the Old and carefully bathes one of the elderly, Larissa. On page thirty-two, chapter four of The Giver, the text says, “Now your back. Lean back and I’ll help you sit up.” Jonas put his arms around her and supported her as she sat. He squeezed the sponge against her back and began to rub her sharp-boned shoulders.” Based on the text, Jonas’s careful treatment with Larissa shows that the society he lives in, greatly values respecting their elders. Overall, the way Koreans and the people in The Giver treat and respect their elders are very

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