Have you ever thought of putting spyware on your child’s computer? In the article ‘‘Undercover Parent’’, Harlan Coben discusses how most parents won’t even consider putting spyware on their child’s computer. From my point of view parents should put spyware on their child’s computer. Some parents will say that it’s better to use parental blocks that deny access to risky sites. For example, if your child looked up porn, your child would not have access to that website.…
Bad things can happen to them such as being kidnapped. The first reason Coben introduces spyware is so parents can monitor what their teen is doing. A second reason Coben suggest spyware is because one of his friends found out that his straight “A” college bound daughter was doing by using spyware. In my opinion parents shouldn’t consider spyware. I don’t agree with Coben suggesting to parents to consider…
In his essay “Undercover Parent,” Harlan Coben supports the idea of using spyware on teenager’s electronics by parents. Using this spyware you have the ability to “log every keystroke your child makes” (2) and invading their private space. While this idea is valid because most parents who do this are loving and only want to protect their children from harm, by placing this spyware on a teen’s electronics you are not only evading their privacy but also their trust. This is because more than likely parents are doing this behind the child’s back, which could ultimately lead to distrust and resentment due to the lack of trust in the teen to be able to make their own decisions. However, spyware on computers would, in fact, help to prevent situations…
Coben states that parents should be open to the idea of spyware and talk to their children about it, but they…
I have witnessed unkind things happen and have had things said to me over the internet that push me towards agreeing that parents should monitor their children, but I also know that I would like to have privacy just as most people do, which leads me to disagree. Coben’s arguments lack reliability and evidence in places where it is needed, such as when he gives examples of things people have said and when he claims to have done a great deal of research, causing his arguments to be weak. If I were going off his words alone, I would not be very convinced with Coben’s argument because of his absence of logos. I would see things in a new perspective, perhaps, since he gave reasonable examples that have a chance of happening, but I would not be persuaded to put spyware on my child’s…
Coben says you should just use spyware to monitor your teens activities instead of going through their personal life because the parent doesn’t need to know about who they like.…
For example, he says that it can be used to “monitor your child’s behavior on the internet so that the parent may correct any unruly conduct. Spyware can also literally record every keystroke made while the program is running.” Coben also explained that responsible parents use spyware strictly to “protect their children from the dangers of the internet.” He states that “when used the right way spyware is a good idea because a watchful eye can help a person make better choices.” For instance Coben himself told the story of what happened to his friend.…
We can learn much about them from what they say about their topic, and how they incorporate their own experiences to help make the topic more relatable. Coben shares his personal experiences with spyware. He has many friends that use it on their children, so he has an inside view to the parent’s reasoning, how well it works, and their children’s reactions. His first-hand experience with spyware makes him more trustworthy and knowledgeable to readers. He has seen it in action, so his opinion has a factual base to it.…
Coban identifies both the positive and negative options of how spyware can be used to watch over teenagers and their internet activity. He encourages families and parents who…
Harlan Coben the author explains in this article named, “The Undercover Parents.” Explains how parents should monitor their kids. I agree with Harlan Coben that parents should monitor their kids for many reasons. Coben also explains how the internet is dangerous for teenagers, because they might share information about their parents or about their life. That might affect them in the future for sharing information.…
In “The Undercover Parent,” a newspaper article written by Harlan Coben (in March 16, 2008), Coben insists that parents install spyware on their children’s computer, but to use it only to a specific level. He argues that parents should have this software to make sure that their kids are guarded and that they are not contacting with anyone that may cause them any harm. However, he also understands that parents should not use it to find out personal information or to read the gossip that happens at school. He supports his points by giving many real life examples and connecting them to what parents care about most: their children’s safety. I have come to agree with Coben’s position as I also believe that parents should have this software because…
Parents are usually overprotective with their kids, of course, for there own good, but, is it right to spy on them. Harlan Coben a writer from New York Times wrote an article titled “The Undercover Parent” in which he gives his opinion about spyware, for him is something good and necessary to keep your kids safe. I agree with his since the safety of my kids, if I had one, would be the priority for me. One of Coben’s arguments is if we should or should not trust our kids. As he said in his article, some parents “say you should simply trust your child”.…
you’re listening for dangerous chatter.” Coben is basically saying that is parental responsibility to be the “safety net” for you child. Many parents shy away from spyware, but in all honesty its only there for a good purpose. I think if these kids internet use was monitored, there would be a different outcome of these stories. In addition, I think that installing spyware is a very foolproof way to protect your…
Parents can simply install it and get weekly reports of everything their child did on the computer. When reading this, like Coben planned, I was intrigued. At the time, the invasion of privacy still struck me as slightly strange, but I was willing to hear his argument. The main argument he uses to justify the use of spyware is that it can protect children from online predators and other inappropriate material on the internet. Using spyware can help to alert the parent, who can possibly intervene before it is too…
Technology and Children Tanya Ortiz National University Abstract The purpose of this paper is to inform the reader of modern technology and how it hinders children’s creativity. Technology should be a tool that helps develop a child’s creativity, in addition to helping them in their daily life. Informing the parents and their children about cyber bullying can prove to be very useful in the prevention of such cases. Technology can also be a resource for children to advance their creativity.…