Effective Fathering Is equated to filling a longing desire searching to fill a whole. In order to be effective as a father one should be a positive role model, visible, and provide security. Having at least one of the important traits can have a profound effect on a child life.
Having an attitude of positivity is something that I find to have a long lasting effect of how a child 's life is structured. Laying this foundation can bring certain outcomes that may cause a negative or positive. For example, when you have a father that is enforcing reading, writing, homework and no company without adults in the home, somehow cause friction. Not to mention if a step-father. It’s sometimes harder to accomplish this task always told you’re not my …show more content…
Unfortunately, having discipline can seem to the child as being negative which also can have a negative feeling within the fathers. They may become discouraged in the attempts to being an effective father. The positives from being an effective father can build discipline, structure and change in historical social science statistics. True effective dads will work on discipline, in order to prevent their children from making decision that will lead them in jail or to teen pregnancy. Some of the discipline can be something as simple as choirs, extra curriculum activities and studies. Having the ability to show these positive alternatives will help creating a more positive outcome in comparison not having a father in the picture. One very important positive outcome would be a positive relationship between parents which indeed shows in a profound manner, this shows the child that whether the parents are separated the most important thing is him/her. Therefore, showing the child responsibility and showing how prioritize. With that being said showing this …show more content…
Although, over time things have changed within history, the role of a father as the protector of the family hasn’t. Security and protection is hard for men today more so than years ago. Men today of color have to struggle with various stereotypes, like thugs, gangster, drug dealers, lazy and uneducated. The definition of provider has changed, in the past men looked to feeding their children maybe buying uniforms for some particular sport. Now fathers want to buy the lasts name brand shoes, clothes or technology. Changing the dynamics greatly from what is valuable to invaluable. Therefore, causing men to chase after easy ways to obtain money thinking this is providing, leaving out most important part security and protection. Choosing to seek easy way of providing will ultimately cause lack of protection because the father will no longer be around. So, getting the proper education will allow for a legal paying position to provide the proper security and
Having an attitude of positivity is something that I find to have a long lasting effect of how a child 's life is structured. Laying this foundation can bring certain outcomes that may cause a negative or positive. For example, when you have a father that is enforcing reading, writing, homework and no company without adults in the home, somehow cause friction. Not to mention if a step-father. It’s sometimes harder to accomplish this task always told you’re not my …show more content…
Unfortunately, having discipline can seem to the child as being negative which also can have a negative feeling within the fathers. They may become discouraged in the attempts to being an effective father. The positives from being an effective father can build discipline, structure and change in historical social science statistics. True effective dads will work on discipline, in order to prevent their children from making decision that will lead them in jail or to teen pregnancy. Some of the discipline can be something as simple as choirs, extra curriculum activities and studies. Having the ability to show these positive alternatives will help creating a more positive outcome in comparison not having a father in the picture. One very important positive outcome would be a positive relationship between parents which indeed shows in a profound manner, this shows the child that whether the parents are separated the most important thing is him/her. Therefore, showing the child responsibility and showing how prioritize. With that being said showing this …show more content…
Although, over time things have changed within history, the role of a father as the protector of the family hasn’t. Security and protection is hard for men today more so than years ago. Men today of color have to struggle with various stereotypes, like thugs, gangster, drug dealers, lazy and uneducated. The definition of provider has changed, in the past men looked to feeding their children maybe buying uniforms for some particular sport. Now fathers want to buy the lasts name brand shoes, clothes or technology. Changing the dynamics greatly from what is valuable to invaluable. Therefore, causing men to chase after easy ways to obtain money thinking this is providing, leaving out most important part security and protection. Choosing to seek easy way of providing will ultimately cause lack of protection because the father will no longer be around. So, getting the proper education will allow for a legal paying position to provide the proper security and