Why Marriage Is Important To Me

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I sit back in my recliner reading “The Story of an Hour” by Kate Chopin, I listen to the sweet sound of music and think about what food I am going to eat. That's a decision I can make in my life without a man telling me what to do. I am not married, because I like to come and go as I please. I heard that in the past, if a woman wasn’t married, people frowned upon her, and she would be ran out of the community. Luckily, times have changed. For instance, I am a woman with kids: two girls named Kamiya who’s twelve and Kadyn who’s six. For my growing teenager, I must guide her and help show her the right way in life. Whether she uses my advice I will feel better within myself that I tried. My baby, who's going on sixteen, looks up to me, I need …show more content…
Marriage is a symbol of love two people willing to spend their entire life together, it is a commitment you and your husband agreed on. However, in the 1800s a married woman was a piece of property for her husband. I couldn’t imagine being a woman living in the late 1800s walking around as if there were animals, women didn’t have a voice to be heard for example, they had no say so in their daily lives, they had to speak when spoken to that lead with the loss of their freedom and their identity to their husbands. How can you teach your children to become independent? When the mother cannot. Possibly passed down generation to generation. Women basically lived like slaves or like kids obeying their father or husbands every command. The man was so controlling abusing his wife. Consequently, a woman’s sole purpose of a baby to an adult was to find a husband and to serve them. They were brought up to marry for financial and life support. Furthermore, Louise was feeling that same way as if she's finally "free! body and soul free" (Chopin 129-15). Louise Mallard has heart disease so knowing that, her sister Josephine stammered nervously, in telling her the

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