She hates that she has to hurt her family, but she does not want to let herself die inside. Society’s definition of what a mother and wife should do is not what she wants to be tied down doing her entire life, she wants no part of the domestic life. On page 113 Ms. Pontellier says, “… There are some periods of despondency and suffering which take possession of me. But I don’t want anything but my own way. That is wanting a good deal, of course, when you have to trample upon the lives, the hearts, the prejudices of others—but no matter—still, I shouldn’t want to trample upon the little lives.” This quote is significant because the authors use of diction allows the reader to feel Mrs. Pontellier’s pain. It also expresses her desires, but at the same time reveals why she feels like she cannot be who she wants to be. Her children’s love, the feelings of others, and society’s perception of her are milestones that she must go through just to be free. Mrs. Pontellier shows that freedom is everything to her and if she cannot obtain what she so desperately desires then in turn, no one will be carefree and …show more content…
Pontellier’s desires. Mrs. Pontellier’s desires and obligations tremendously affected how society viewed her not only as a woman but also as a mother. The author used the two conflicting forces in Edna Pontellier’s life to create her ambitious and unique character. Early in the novel, the author characterizes Mrs. Pontellier and her character never seems to shift, although she does become more open about her desires and feelings throughout the novel. Mrs. Pontellier is a major character in the novel because of her rebellious character. Kate Chopin uses Mrs. Pontellier to convey the message of women being controlled by marriage and