Dysfunctionating Family: The Struggles Of The Jarrett Family

Improved Essays
Just like any other family, this family has its own problems to deal with. It seems normal at first until the obvious shows on how dysfunctional the Jarrett family turns out to be. With short temper and personal family issues, many breakouts occur throughout time. These arguments could have been avoided if a one on one conversation occurred to resolve any unnecessary conflicts. Unfortunately, Conrad, Beth, and Calvin engage in acts of silence or violence very often. Both of them are conflicting as anger resides within them and heats them up in the moment. As a teenage boy, it might seem acceptable for Conrad to behave the way he does. From school problems and stress from outside activities along with his brother’s death, he displays a lot of anger in front of his family. Although being more tolerant towards him would …show more content…
The way she approaches and handles things reflect her irritation that resides within her. For instance, a display of violence occurs when she gets in a dispute with her husband. She yells at him for telling friends that her son has been seeing a psychiatrist lately. This isn’t a major issue, but she makes it one because she is ashamed that her son has gotten to this point of desperation. It causes her to drift away from her husband while she could have just created safety first and then asked him why he would tell others that. On the contrary, Beth turns silent when at the garage door, her husband makes it clear that what he wore to Buck’s funeral is irrelevant. Her approach this time was more reasonable as she restrained herself from going any further into the conflict. When it comes to her son, Conrad, her largest freak out is when she finds out her son quit the swim team. Knowing that it was a big deal to him, she feels betrayed. Little does she know, it wasn’t making her son any happier. If anything, it was making him

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Literary Essay Life experiences can change people for the better or for the worst. It seems that life experience makes people the way that they are. For the main character Beth her life experience during the story changed her life. In “The Truth About Sharks” is a realistic fiction story by Joan Bauer.…

    • 650 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    The Crank Trilogy

    • 2072 Words
    • 9 Pages

    Overview of the Crank Trilogy The books that I chose to do my report on were the Crank trilogy, Crank, Glass, and Fallout, by Ellen Hopkins. Crank was published in 2004, Glass was published in 2007, and the last book, Fallout came out in 2013. Ellen Hopkins wrote these books when she had a personal experience when her daughter, Kristina, started using "the monster" after she met the wrong person. She wrote the books to help herself understand why her daughter did it, then she realized that other people would relate to it and how many people had the same story.…

    • 2072 Words
    • 9 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    If we compare Chris' relationship with his family and the people he interacted with a Emory, to his relationships with the people he met on the road there is a significant contrast between the two. McCandless was withdrawn and seemed anti-social with his parents and the people at Emory. McCandless was not always withdrawn from his parents but ever since he revisited his childhood home in California and learned that his father was living a double life while stilled married to McCandless' mother, Billie, he fathered another son with Marcia. McCandless did not inform his parents of his knowledge instead "he chose instead to make a secret of his dark knowledge and express his rage obliquely, in silence and sullen withdrawal"( ). McCandless was…

    • 153 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Her selfish psychological needs motivate her to create new games and exposes her self-centred personality.…

    • 146 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    (144). Beth is more concerned about keeping Jordan calm and stress free in light of the fact that he broke his arm. When Conrad was in the hospital, Beth could not even get herself to visit him once. Beth is more concerned with herself and her reputation than she is with her family. Beth revolves her life solely around what people know about her and her social status and Conrad doing this to himself ruined her family 's…

    • 1028 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The Prentice family was referred to the community-based agency to improve their mezzo family structure in order to avoid the removal of their children. Individual members of this unit utilize their personal form of maladaptive coping to respond to situational and contextual barriers based on their predisposing, precipitating and perpetuating factors. While the parents, Antonio and Terri, were never categorized as ideal parents, the death of their infant son has been the catalyst for an increase in detrimental behavior. Antonio and Terri’s behaviors have led to the neglectful treatment of their children, Jack, Jerrod, and DJ, which has caused their neighbors, family, and the son’s teacher to seek Child Protective Service (CPS) involvement.…

    • 1266 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    She struggles to establish her own identity because…

    • 1025 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Family Structure The Hoover family in Little Miss Sunshine has six primary family members. These family members are Richard (father), Sheryl (mother), Dwayne (eldest son), Olive (daughter), Frank Ginsberg (maternal uncle), and Grandpa Edwin (paternal grandfather). Each one of these characters are unique in their very own way. Richard is the father of the family and struggles to sell his self-help program.…

    • 1327 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Family life has changed dramatically over the last century. The delay of marriage is one of the biggest changes that has occurred in American families. People are waiting until they have finished their education to marry, which has an impact on parenting when they become parents. Another significant change that has occurred in American families is the structure of a typical family, so much so that the typical family of a father, mother and 2.5 children has all but disappeared. The family structure can be the popular image of a mother, father and children or it can be a divorced mother or father and children or a mother or father and their partner and children.…

    • 1016 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Ordinary People Analysis

    • 1581 Words
    • 7 Pages

    It seems as though the majority of Conrad’s unhappiness that does not stem from Buck’s death comes from the behavior of his mother. Conrad is also consumed with the thoughts of his suicide attempt. Conrad at one point says to his therapist, Dr. Burger that he feels that his mother hates him for his suicide attempt, as she redid the entire bathroom to get rid of all the blood. Conrad has difficulty forgiving himself for attempting suicide because he hurt his family after they had already been hurt by Buck’s…

    • 1581 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The Great Depression of the 1930's deeply affected the Braddock family and millions of others following the stock market crash. The Braddock family posses a story of overcoming difficult obstacles. Jimmy Braddock, the heavyweight championships, experienced some bad luck for a while and had his boxing license taken away. As a result, he struggled to place food on the table for his family. The kids were starting to become sick and Mae, Jimmy's wife, started to become hopeless.…

    • 650 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The American Family Conservatives, liberals and feminists have differing views on many issues. One of the important issues that each ideology focuses on is the family. Janet Giele 's essay “Decline of the family: Conservative, liberal, and feminist views explains the different viewpoints of the differing schools of thought. The New York Times ' series " The changing American family", presents a variety of contemporary families to underscore the ways in which family in our society is diversified. In the final story ,"Simply Deciding to Be related", a man becomes a family member though necessity.…

    • 1274 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    My Girl Movie Analysis

    • 1249 Words
    • 5 Pages

    She lets the conflict drive her to become a better person. A great example is towards the end of the movie she runs into Thomas J’s mother. She tells his mom that her mother will look out for…

    • 1249 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Beth is a very cold, unpersonable and unstable parent. If anyone in the film, Ordinary People has the worst conflict management problems it’s her. Ideally the mother of any home is loving, sweet and caring, but not Beth, she is worried about herself more than the well being of her very own son or husband. Beth struggles with the truth of what happened to her son Buck. Anytime someone, no matter whom, brings up the death or any problems going on in the family, she either bends the truth or completely ignores it.…

    • 1071 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Marriage and Family is all around us. It’s on television, newspapers, and magazine ads. We pass by families on the street, in the store, in our own neighborhoods. At some point of our lives, everyone has a family. However, with society changing and progressing and falling over time, the definition of a family is changing.…

    • 1245 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays