“Part of the opposition to and discomfort with, adolescent sexuality is its association with high prevalence of unintended consequences, such as pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases” (Schalet, Pg. 4). Society belief that discussions about sexuality could affect teenager perspective on sexual activity. Instead, American adolescences would benefit from the acceptance of open discourse related to sexuality. According to Schalet, in the Netherlands a new perspective of sex has concluded in an increase in teenagers’ self-esteem and prevention of unintended consequences. In America the stigmatization of sex has discarded the open discussion of sexuality, gender and identity because of religion, upbringing, and institutional norms, which have implemented codes of conducts in society.…
The article “The Myth of the Tight Pussy” emphasizes the myths we had created in our society due to the socialization we have between each other. It also highlights the way our culture shapes our ideals of sexuality. Our values, beliefs and behaviors are the ones that shape the way we define sex. These aspects depend on each individual since we are from distinct races, religious and ethnicities. This article tells us a little bit about how the definitions of “the myths of the perfect or ugly pussy” and other taboos have a different meaning since each individual get different ideas from their agents of socialization such as family, friends and media.…
Part A (1) What is the purity myth and how is it related to the Madonna/Whore binary? Why is this myth impossible to realize for women? The Purity Myth is described by Jennifer Valenti throughout her novel as the socially created construct that surrounds women based on the premise that in the 21st century a women’s worth is determined by whether or not she is sexually active. A women who is sexually active may feel a loss of worth a this Purity Myth, given that they are consistently bombarded by the fact that being a virgin makes you pure and desirable, but by being sexually active before marriage somehow reduces her worth and makes her less desirable.…
Schalet argued that cultural norms about femininity, masculinity, love, and lust explain how the sexual double standard is negotiated among teenagers. When it comes to the double standard, American girls receive more stigma than Dutch girls. If American teenagers make the choice to have sex outside of a meaningful relationship, they are referred to as a “slut.” Schalet explained that Dutch girls are highly unlikely to participate in name calling because they have a different support system. Health care providers have made it so that Dutch women have easier access to different contraceptive methods, which places the responsibility of preventing pregnancy on them.…
Whereas, if a man went out and bought a pack of condoms they would be congratulated or even encouraged by other people, this contrast displays the clear line between women’s socially constructed identities regarding the concept of virginity and the issues that are arising from…
Cultural construction of sexuality can be defined as the view that perceptions and attitudes towards sexuality varies due to the diversification in values and practices amongst various cultures. In this essay, I will argue that sexuality is culturally constructed and explore the different ways in which it is perceived and understood, as well as analysing the reasons for these differences. Firstly, I will look at sexually restrictive cultures and discuss how religion and ethos cause some cultures to have strict morals and beliefs regarding sexuality. Secondly, I will go on to look at sexually permissive cultures and explore how some cultures have greater freedom and openness towards sexuality, exploring the alternative connotations of sexual…
In 2009, a feminist blogger named Jessica Valenti wrote an essay titled, “The Cult of Virginity”. The purpose of her piece is to highlight how the concept of virginity contributes to a harmful, unrealistic standard for women. For this reason, Valenti aims to educate her intended audience of adolescent readers in the hopes counteracting this damaging social construct. In the beginning of the essay, Valenti reflects on her own personal story of having intercourse for the first time.…
He is able to compare different cultural views on the matter and how and why they differ. This approach is especially interesting for the reader because they are able to see which cultures are more alike in thinking than others. He is able to align certain opinions forming a comparative framework for the reader to understand. However, this framework that he presents is quite general, especially since he uses terms like “around the world,” a lot in this book. He acknowledges that the question of sexual education will never have a global consensus but also make statements like “Around the world, they (teachers) assumed that informed parents would accept the virtues and necessity of sex education; when the educators’ hopes were dashed, they demanded that schools teach about sex to save innocent children from parental ignorance.”…
“ Teenage sex in America” Tennage sexual behavior are issues of concern in the world .In a society like the United states where the subject of sex is considerate as taboo in many families, Amy Schalet in her essay "the sleepover question" claims that parents should communicate more about sex to their kids, she suggest that it is still possible for families to stay connected when teenagers start having sex. While, many people agree with her that a better communication between parents and teens is necessary for a better understanding of sexual intercourse , others suggest like Joy Walker in his study “Parents and sex education-looking beyond the bird and the bees” that sex education from parents matter but, it is also important that the media, the schools get involved and play their roles to solve the problem of tennage sex and the consequences. Thus, a breakdown of Amy Schalet text is indispensable .How Amy Schalet introduces and establish her claim , how she appeals to her audience will be subject of examination in the following paragraphs.…
Jacqueline Murray, the professor of Department of History at University of Windsor, shows how women emerge in the thirteenth-century manuals as a ’marked’ category defined by their reproductive and sexual functions, viewed above all in terms of how their own sexual status (widow, wife, virgin, prostitute) contributes to the evaluation of males who commit sexual sin with them. ( 13) The Wife thinks that the virginity is not very important because our bodies were given us to use. She despises virginity but she does not tell anyone. The Wife speaks about sexuality in natural way which is very brave and unusual in her century.…
As I reflect upon my research, I have come to a realization that the interviewing process was not as simple as I had originally thought. There were some difficulties with the comprehension of my questions at first, so I had to reword some of them differently and ask the question all over again. Another road block that I encountered was keeping my composure by attempting to have neutral facial expressions and repressing my bias from those who I disagreed with. However, it was fairly easy to interview those who were in my age group. Interviewees that were similar in age with me had more conversational and casual interviews which alleviated any awkward tension resulting from the subject of virginity.…
They Hear But They Don’t Listen “No one listen when I talk. They hear, but they don’t listen....” a quote from my favorite podcast, Night Vale.…
The abstinence-only sex education in schools leads to many societal repercussions in areas where this education is taught. Abstinence-only education is the only sex education to teach children in schools is to abstain from sex. The issue of teaching abstinence is an important issue to address because the area in which abstinence-only education faces societal repercussions. Some of these societal repercussions are increased teen pregnancy, increased STD rates, and belief in sex myths. Abstinence-only education relates to the other themes in class such as sex education, government regulated sexuality, and religious views impacting sexuality.…
Virginity, being the controversial topic that is is, has been the centre of many discussions aiming to analyse, and question, its true importance. Such discussions, or more accurately, researches, have ranged from purely scientific, to strictly sociocultural, and the continue to exist and draw people to their conclusions about virtue. However, many are not aware of said discussions, because they have been conditioned, by society, to hold the idea sacred, and refuse to acknowledge any other aspect relating to its oppressive nature. Due to society putting so much relative importance to the notion of virginity, one forgets to question whether the topic is constructive to society, as in it adds to the wellbeing and comfort of the members in this…
The trends in teenage sexual activity have not only advanced, but have become more of a focus when it comes to how this generation chooses to express one’s self. For this topic, the age range goes from thirteen to twenty-four and does so due to the brain development and personal sense of identity still progressing around these ages. Talking and discussing certain contents such as STD’s, sexual harassment, teen pregnancy, and even masturbation are also very important key topics when going over sexual activity because of how often these situations happen, but are never truly talking about in detail. It is important to talk about all aspects of sex to teenagers, even kids starting at a younger age so by the time they grow up, it is not hard to…