Rebuilding the Victim The panelist explain after an assault happens the victim feels vulnerable. Their inner power, and will has been taken away. They said when they first speak with the victim, they help them gain control. When engaging …show more content…
The victim needs reassuring it is not their fault. They feel guilty as to what happen, and think they deserve being sexual victimized. The panelist told us a story about a 65 year old man she spoke with who was raped. The older man said it happened when he was 14 years old. He wanted some pot, and an older news caster said he had some. So at the time the 14 year old boy went into the news caster house. There the news caster raped him, and to this day he never said a word about what happened to him. He tried justifying the incident to the panelist by saying it was his fault. He should not have been trying to get high. Going to an adult’s house was wrong, and he should have been punished. The lady many times tried to explain to him it was not his fault. In no way should he ever have been raped does not matter what the reason may be. Disclosing what happened to you earlier on in the victimization can help