Abuse can happen to anyone
Colletta Chesney
DeVry University
Abuse can happen to anyone During my freshman year at ASA College, a good friend of mine told me a dramatic story about her relationship. She told me that her boyfriend would physically hit her if he see her talking to any guys in her school. She once said “ I cannot speak to anyone even if it’s about class work, when I am around I cannot even speak my mind because he will even want to put his hands on me in front of my friends at school, he always tries to intimated me”. I could see the pain in her eyes even when she spoke. I told her that “It is sad to be hurts by the one you loves” (Alhabib, 2010, p. 2). I explained to her that she was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship, I even told her to forget about that guy and moved on with her life, but she refused and commented that “her boyfriend is a smart, sweet and sexy guy for her”. Whereas millions of young female are …show more content…
Unemployment plays a major role on domestic violence knowing that you lost our job may be a great pressure especially when the bills are piling up and it’s not way you can pay it all at all that is where abuse happen because that person who may be unemployed may be going through a phrase where he/ she are just angry and frustrated and looking for that right person to take it all out on and that may be you. Also to “When a women man partner is employed the rate of violence is 5.7 percent. Its 7.5 percent when the male experience a period of unemployment”.
The relationship between alcohol or other substance abuse and domestic violence is complicated. According to ( ) “major causes of domestic abuse in reality, some abusers rely on substance use (and abuse) as an excuse for becoming violence” because when that person have alcohol in their system that is when they become more temper and want to fight about something that probably happen way
Colletta Chesney
DeVry University
Abuse can happen to anyone During my freshman year at ASA College, a good friend of mine told me a dramatic story about her relationship. She told me that her boyfriend would physically hit her if he see her talking to any guys in her school. She once said “ I cannot speak to anyone even if it’s about class work, when I am around I cannot even speak my mind because he will even want to put his hands on me in front of my friends at school, he always tries to intimated me”. I could see the pain in her eyes even when she spoke. I told her that “It is sad to be hurts by the one you loves” (Alhabib, 2010, p. 2). I explained to her that she was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship, I even told her to forget about that guy and moved on with her life, but she refused and commented that “her boyfriend is a smart, sweet and sexy guy for her”. Whereas millions of young female are …show more content…
Unemployment plays a major role on domestic violence knowing that you lost our job may be a great pressure especially when the bills are piling up and it’s not way you can pay it all at all that is where abuse happen because that person who may be unemployed may be going through a phrase where he/ she are just angry and frustrated and looking for that right person to take it all out on and that may be you. Also to “When a women man partner is employed the rate of violence is 5.7 percent. Its 7.5 percent when the male experience a period of unemployment”.
The relationship between alcohol or other substance abuse and domestic violence is complicated. According to ( ) “major causes of domestic abuse in reality, some abusers rely on substance use (and abuse) as an excuse for becoming violence” because when that person have alcohol in their system that is when they become more temper and want to fight about something that probably happen way