Why Do You Always Want To Have Children

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1. Did you always wanted to have children?
a. Yes, I always wanted a family and kids of my own and have a chance to be the best mother I could be.
2. Were all your children planned?
a. No, 2 were a mistake in a way and the other one was planned. My first child was planned because I just got married and wanted to start a family where as the others kind of just happened, but I wasn’t angry because I loved the thought of having more children.
3. Do you think there is a perfect time in adulthood to have children? Why or why not?
a. Yes, I think early 30’s is probably a good time to have children, so you can be more financially ready, go see the world and to sort your career out before settling down to start a family. If I could turn the clocks back I totally would and done the things I wanted to do whilst I was still young and active, but on the other hand I love the children I have and I might not of had them if I had waited.
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Did you at any point want more children? Why or why not?
a. No, three was enough financially and I don’t think I would have been able to spend the time I did with my children if I would of had more. Three was a good number and I couldn’t of had more anyway because I got fixed after my third child.
5. How did you tell you person when you found out you were pregnant?
a. With my first child it was exciting because my husband and I had been trying for so long after marriage but I don’t think I told him in any special way. With my other two children it was the same way, I was excited to be pregnant but we didn’t have a big announcement or anything.
6. Did you have any weird cravings while you were pregnant? Do you still have them?
a. With my first, pickled onions and spicy food were something I craved all the time; I actually tried my first curry while pregnant with her and I still enjoy spicy food

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