“There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.” – Martin Luther
People getting married is a wonderful that especially because it joins to people together for ever but sometimes it is not always together. Divorce is a common thing that happens to mostly everyone in the world. In one day there is nearly 2,400 divorces and for a year there is over 876,000 divorces (32 Shocking Divorce Statistics, 2012). The question for this is why is there so many people getting divorced. People are getting divorced because they say they are not in love anymore but are still together because of the children. Forcing a child through their parent’s divorce is harmful to them. I think that instead of couples …show more content…
There are some people though who say people are happier when the divorce is happening (Waite, 4). This is false because there are some people who wants to go back to their abusers or back to the person that they 'do not love ' because that is how they know how to live. Couples that have broken up because they do not know each other still love each other they just need help on how to fix it. "Build togetherness based on a shared intimacy and identity, while at the same time set boundaries to protect each partner 's autonomy." (Wallerstein, 2015). Couples are not happy though when it usually involves …show more content…
If there is parents who constantly fight than the children will think that it is their fault for their parents fighting and because of this even before the parents are getting divorced the children will act out. For example, the children not doing their assignments for school, or wanting to do more violent outburst to try to get attention. (Desai, 2007). Children are upset before the parent get divorced but that is how they are trying to say 'stop fighting '.
Marriage should be about loving the one that the person truly care about. There are some divorces where it is a go to court and be done but there are some where ex-couples have battles for stuff that they want.* For example Joe and his soon to be ex-wife, Libby are getting a divorce and Joe wants all the furniture but so doesn 't Libby. They bring it to court and fight in front of a judge, who is probably just there for the money and the important crime, and fight until the judge rules who should get what. For a divorce like that, can take up to a year for it to be done (Divorce Statistics,
People getting married is a wonderful that especially because it joins to people together for ever but sometimes it is not always together. Divorce is a common thing that happens to mostly everyone in the world. In one day there is nearly 2,400 divorces and for a year there is over 876,000 divorces (32 Shocking Divorce Statistics, 2012). The question for this is why is there so many people getting divorced. People are getting divorced because they say they are not in love anymore but are still together because of the children. Forcing a child through their parent’s divorce is harmful to them. I think that instead of couples …show more content…
There are some people though who say people are happier when the divorce is happening (Waite, 4). This is false because there are some people who wants to go back to their abusers or back to the person that they 'do not love ' because that is how they know how to live. Couples that have broken up because they do not know each other still love each other they just need help on how to fix it. "Build togetherness based on a shared intimacy and identity, while at the same time set boundaries to protect each partner 's autonomy." (Wallerstein, 2015). Couples are not happy though when it usually involves …show more content…
If there is parents who constantly fight than the children will think that it is their fault for their parents fighting and because of this even before the parents are getting divorced the children will act out. For example, the children not doing their assignments for school, or wanting to do more violent outburst to try to get attention. (Desai, 2007). Children are upset before the parent get divorced but that is how they are trying to say 'stop fighting '.
Marriage should be about loving the one that the person truly care about. There are some divorces where it is a go to court and be done but there are some where ex-couples have battles for stuff that they want.* For example Joe and his soon to be ex-wife, Libby are getting a divorce and Joe wants all the furniture but so doesn 't Libby. They bring it to court and fight in front of a judge, who is probably just there for the money and the important crime, and fight until the judge rules who should get what. For a divorce like that, can take up to a year for it to be done (Divorce Statistics,